littlek wrote:shewolf - I dunno - I always feel I never feel the stress until I am crippled by it (mentally or physically), but I don't think I'm that stressed out (mentally) right now. I have the kids' cold, HM#2 is being nutty, the sidewlks are slippery-slidy and the shoveled paths are too narrow for a stroller. My guess is that this back pain is a combo of shoveling out 3' of snow and carrying 30 pound baby on slippery sidewalks.
Im sorry, I didnt mean to sound like I was trying to pass off your pain.
I was simply following the lead of the thread and in my strange way agreeing that your sister needs to lighten up and let you take care of yourself.
Yes, carrying a kid around hurts the back, thighs, head, neck, almost every muscle the human body has..
Hopefully, your sister can find it in her heart,( and schedule ) to give you some time off so that you can rest and heal. Unfortunatly back pains never go away if you dont stop doing what caused it in the first place ...
( lifting heavy baby off floor, chair, table , window , ceiling!!
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