McTag wrote:To be described as coquettish could be insulting to (or on behalf of) a minister of state, but I would think not necessarily so. I wonder what Ms Rice would say of this, if she could speak on her own behalf?
Margaret Thatcher famously used her feminine wiles on her colleages, and others. Quite ourageously and deliberately, if her biographies are to be believed. Men were aware of the woman within. Francois Mitterand (steady, George) said she had "the lips of Marilyn Monroe, but the eyes of Caligula".
I agree (mostly). McTag is not utterly without merit, mostly, but not utterly.
Well the term "coquette" or "coquettish" is indeed a highly "sexist" epithet in the language of the thought police of contemporary political correctitude. However, that merely demonstrates two salient things; (1) the Inquisition never really died, it merely changed venues; and (2) serious people should ignore the narrow-minded cant that passes for correct values and speech in this idiotic cult of political correctitude.
The term is descriptive and either flattering or insulting, depending on the context and intent of the speaker. The notion of intrinsic "sexism" in the word and concept defies common sense and experience: it is absurd.
I am familiar with Mitterrand's metaphor, and do find it quite delightful, if inaccurate in the choice of emperors. Thanks for sharing it, but I suggest a modification;
I would say the eyes showed the calm and steady resolve of Hadrian or either of the Antonies who followed him. Of them the inestimable Gibbon wrote,
Quote: If a man were called on to fix a period in the history of the world during which the condition of the human race was most happy and prosperous, he would, without hesitation, name that which elapsed from the death of Domitian to the accession of Commodus. The vast extent of the Roman Empire was governed by absolute power under the guidance of virtue and wisdom. The Armies were restrained by the firm but gentle hand of four successive emperors whose characters and authority commanded involuntary respect. The forms of the civil administration were carefully preserved by Nerva, Trajan, Hadrian, and the Antonies, who delighted in the image of liberty and were pleased with considering themselves as the accountable ministers of the laws.