Oh that's a rant subject for me. I usually have plenty of "stuff" here for the
kids while at some other homes there is virtually nothing offered at all. There is one girlfriend of Jane I am thinking of, and when my daughter it at her house, she comes home completely famished. In turn, the minute said girlfriend sets foot in our house, she constantly pushes Jane to get food for her.
I usually have a designated place where I have small packages of chips and cookies and when the basket is empty - that's it then! Same with drinks, there is only so
much available and afterwards the kitchen is closed.
I also coach Jane beforehand and tell her that everyone will receive a snack and
a drink and she shouldn't come back for more within another hour or two.