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If you want to know, you'll have to ask your wife.

she says I did that

Did what? Did you make the entries in the phone?

yes, that I changed them, of course I didn't.

Why are you looking at your wife's phone contacts?

How do you know her best friend's # is stored under a different name?

I guess she'll be happy then if you offer to replace her phone with a new one.

I'm not checking her phone, she wanted to show me something and scrolled through her contacts. Then the name sex passes by, and then a strange name passes by which I thought was her family because she calls and get calls from it about every day. you don't have to scan a phone to see a name when it rings. So when she picked up I heard she was talking to her "best friend", a guy I have never seen in our 5 year relationship.

You have to talk with her. Only she can tell you the answers which you seek.

that seems more than a little bit odd

Your wife's best friend wasn't at your wedding?

this

I have an Australian pal who shakes hands with his wife's best friend several times a day.

It certainly is suspicious ...and frankly with my experience ...your wife might be thinking about cheating if she hasn't done it yet. I'm really sorry.

Have a phone number under the name "sex" and then telling you you did it??? That's well off ! Have you tried to a serious talk about it? You have to do it if you seriously want the whole truth. Again, I'm really sorry about this...there's nothing worse than being played like this. Especially from someone that you love so dearly.

ok, the story continues. I had to sync her new phone with google upon her request. I just noticed that on her google shared pictures, she share naked pictures of herself with two different guys. she also had one video dancing naked showing everything shared with the guy she calls her "best friend". she says her phone was probably hacked and that someone else did this. two days ago we went out and I happen to talk just normal with two women. one was her friend and the other woman was the wife of the bar owner. when we get home, she accuses me of hitting on those women and giving them my phone number, which I didn't. how stupid am I? you tell me;

She polyamourous?

cheating. Give her the option of stopping all contact and letting you check or you are done.

I am waiting for the ones who say this sort of thing is "ok"....

Okay.