Dreaming about other men

"...Dream, dream, even for a little while
Dream, dream, filling up an idle hour"

Ok, I'm thinking it has to be a work crush again -- though a very strange and unexpected one. I must be bored. Maybe early spring fever.

Try some role-playing with the hubby tonight.

Good idea. It is his birthday.

I wanted to add this to your thread to give all the ladies out there some inspiration for their dreams tonight.

Sadly, they make me think of Nazi youth.

Really? Hm...sorry...I can take them away...

They look like they're from a Boy's School in England. Young, and a little on the clean-cut side, but you can just about feel the hormones flowing out of the photo.....Hey, what kind of hunk has a basket on his bike? Too practical!

And on dreams, I often dream of sex with other men, only rarely is it my husband. The other night I dreamed I accosted a total stranger, told him I knew him from previous lives, and had sex with him on top of a low concrete wall, right out in public. It was fun! Who knows, maybe this would be a good pick-up line? "I've loved you for generations....you're my soul mate.... I've known you forever..."

I aslo dreamed this week that I finally got Carlos Castenada in my apt. (of 25 yrs ago) so I could ask him if all his books were just delusions, or BS, or what. Never did get a straight answer from him, because they lights all kept going out, and I was busy changing light bulbs! Sigh. Way too much like real life.

Cute, but they are a bit too young.

Funny that this topic is out there or maybe inspired because of it, but I had a men full of dreams last night. I was at a tropical resort and 3 or 4 men were hitting on me – they were hot and sexy-made my heart go pitter - patter. And none of them resembled anyone I knew. In my dream I was single so it was o-k.

It's probably just me. I'm not too turned on by perfection. I like them bald or chubby or with a limp or something. :wink:

BorisKitten, you are cracking me up. I'm really glad you joined A2K.

Linkat, maybe it's something in the air. We got an unseasonably warm spell about a week ago. You know how sometimes, after a few warm days, flowers will start to sprout thinking it's spring. Maybe it's that.

Gets the juices flowing...

Yeah, those guys are yucky. Ken dolls.

But hey, I got an idea from the photo: Vacations for middle-aged American women to English Boys' Schools....what do you think?

SO much to learn.....

Seeing those fresh, unspoiled young men makes me think of their messy rooms.

Also the money they are collecting as models-in-group.

Erotic? No.

I have to side with Lin here..
this thread is making me have more men dreams as well.
Though.. hehe.. mine are abit embarassing .
but sexual none the less.
I had a dream about a man who was living in the back of a repair shop . I knew for some reason he was ' touched in the head' . So in my dream I am looking through his apt while he is steadily hitting on me , trying to find out what meds he is taking.
He is randomly touching my rear , but continuesly following me and saying some really sweet things to me.
I finally give up on the med hunt and start kissing him. He hands me a cigarette that is marijuana instead.. ( how the vchange happened i dont remember) and we are talking, smoking and kissing.
We leave his apt and go out to a junkyard and begin having sex on a dusty old car that has been chopped in half. Through the windshield I see a family of dogs, ducks and a small bird all housed on the dashboard. hehe
Im a wierd one.. I tell ya!

It was Gus, wasn't it.

busted

I dunno, Shewolf, doesn't seem all that weird to me! OK, maybe the ducks.

One woman on a forum said in her sex dreams, she always had a penis. There's a dream I've never had. Then I thought, well How Else would I ever know what it's like to have one?

My most recent weird dream was a long tour through a giant corporate office building...not unusual for me, I'm often miserably stuck in corporate America, where I worked for so long.... But that's not the weird part: I wandered into the men's locker room, and found a half-naked man there who was known to be a prostitute, and I said, "I'll give you $2,000 if you have sex with me right now."

The bad news is, the dream changed immediately, so I never got an answer, much less Free Dream Sex. The good news is, this is how I came up with the idea of The Contract with my husband....trading work for sex/affection/trying on his part... Sort of pitiable, now that I think of it.

Those boys would be much more sexy, I think, if someone had invented a scratch-and-sniff monitor.

Oooo.. I like your thinking.
But then again, with those boys, a scratch and sniff monitor would only reveal grape bubble gum and hair gel.
Now.. a BRAILLE monitor.. ;-) theres something to get your panties in a twist. HAHA!!

As for the penis dreams.. I dont think I have ever had one myself. THough I cant say that the opportunity to change sex organs for one day hasnt ever crossed my mind. I always wonder what it feels like. Not just for sex, but to have the ' dangly ' things around all day. Im sure as a woman changing into a man it would be really wierd. We would walk funny, sit like a girl.. who knows. My husband and I talk about that. hehe
We ask each other what it feels like to be that sex. Of course, with nothing to compare it to we dont really have a good answer. Though, from his answers.... I think women have greater orgasims. ;-)

So, here it is, Monday, and I'm thinking of the topic of crushes on other men again. I realize today that what I miss, and what makes these dreams/fantasies so appealing, is when a man looks at you like you are a hot fudge sunday on a 90 degree day and the only thing keeping his hands off of you is the uncertainty whether his advances will be welcome.

Oh yeah.

I didn't realize what an incorrigible flirt I was until I was in a serious relationship and had to curtail it.

That's the best.

Ah well.

Hubby still bestows that look occasionally, bless 'im.