Dreaming about other men

Everyone, I would imagine. You can't control what you dream about. It's harmless. Provided you don't go out and act on any feeling you developed from a dream.

Yep. I know what you mean about distracting, though.

Realizing that it's harmless, the distraction can be pleasant.

But distracting.

it can be pleasant.. it can be distracting... it can be many things as the meaning of a sexual dream can be manythings as well. But they are just that.. dreams. Though good ones.. ;-) are always enjoyed. hehe

What helps me is realizing that it is just a school yard crush. The feeling you have for that person are nothing compared to the love you have for your spouse.

My dreams are so enthralling that sometimes I wish I could stay in that world.

Everytime I dream about another woman squinney is in there too. So I guess it's okay

Your unfailing devotion is an inspiration to us all, BiP.

Girls, all of you dreaming about me is depriving me of my sleep.

Not to me. I like to keep my dream life separate from my awake life.

aw, jpin....you are such a romantic!

I'm afraid that's probably what I like about it. Crushes are nice. Once, at a previous company, I dreamed about my boss and developed an unnatural crush on him. Of course, I never acted on it, but there is something to that tingly feeling of having a crush on someone you don't know all that well. The anticipation of a first kiss,... you know what I mean right? Maybe it's the 7 year itch, only for me it happens about once every 18 months.

Last night I dreamed about two men. One was the crush, someone I don't really know but wow, in my dream he was a really good kisser with nice soft lips. The other was my current manager (whom I pretty much despise). In my dream we were married and I was calculating how much I would let him keep in order to divorce him swiftly. I gave him the house and all the belongings and took only my car. Luckily also, in my dream I still had kids but they weren't his, thank God.

Actually panzade, I have you in mind for my sister. Let me know if your current relationship meets its end... :wink:

Will that heal me, BPB?

you may touch the hem of my robe.....freeduck your faith has healed you....

Careful FD, you don't know where that thing's been!

My faith or his robe? I guess I don't know where either one of them has been.

Yeah... I hd a crush on a co-worker awhile back and it was the fun, flirty, newness of it all. I think it is the excitment that we miss. Not knowing what is going to happen next. I never acted on it and would never think of doing so but it was fun and exciting so I didn't exactly do anything to stop it either. But it bothered me to know that the thought at least crossed my mind.

Then a few weeks later I had a real nice weekend with my wife. Nothing special just renting a movie, laying on the couch, good conversation over dinner, that sort of stuff. It was kind of like somebody turned on a light switch in my head. I suddenly realized that the only thing I liked about the crush was the feelings that it gave me. The excitment, the feeling of being wanted.

But I already had all of that and more with my wife. The bond we have created between each other is stronger than any other bond I have ever created. Although I lived many years without her, I seriously doubt my ability to survive with out her now. I thought about throwing that away over a silly little crush and suddenly that silly little crush was just that: silly.