HELP My boyfriend wants a sex change

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Hi everyone,

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We have talked about getting married, the works. Last night he came to me and said he was getting a sex change. Me being a straight women, I am very freeked out by this. He told me he loved me and it wasn't my fault!

My friends always told me that there was something different about him. My mother said he was 'gay' and I always defended him. I guess love just blinded me!

WHAT DO I DO!!!!

(ok this isn't happening to me, but what if it was, I always wondered what someone would do!!)

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If I were you I'd get a sex change operation too...you know...to preserve the status quo....

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give him a subscription to Victoria's Secret and wish him well...you've really benefitted anyway..gaining a new girlfriend and wardrobe ..

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probably he just meant he wants f*#k someone besides you....

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panzade wrote:

If I were you I'd get a sex change operation too...you know...to preserve the status quo....

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Just become a bisexual, if you love him, you love him.

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All so harsh!!!

I understand it wont be easy but you have to let go.
If you want to or can stay friends then thats the best alternative.

Do you know anything about the operation?
Have you spoken to him about it?

From TV that ive seen this is a very serious situation,he has probably been thinking about this from a young age and he wants to be the real him.

The way i look at it is that the body is just a casing, sometimes what is inside doesnt match up, like getting pepsi in a coke can.

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material girl wrote:

All so harsh!!!

I understand it wont be easy but you have to let go.
If you want to or can stay friends then thats the best alternative.

Do you know anything about the operation?
Have you spoken to him about it?

From TV that ive seen this is a very serious situation,he has probably been thinking about this from a young age and he wants to be the real him.

The way i look at it is that the body is just a casing, sometimes what is inside doesnt match up, like getting pepsi in a coke can.[/[/b]quote]

Suddenly the term taste challenge comes to mind....

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material girl wrote:

The way i look at it is that the body is just a casing, sometimes what is inside doesnt match up, like getting pepsi in a coke can.

More like getting tutti-frutti in a root beer can if you ask me....

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panzade wrote:

material girl wrote:

The way i look at it is that the body is just a casing, sometimes what is inside doesnt match up, like getting pepsi in a coke can.

More like getting tutti-frutti in a root beer can if you ask me....

lmao

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But I love him, and don't want to let him go, I don't want him to change either!! I am so confused, it is all my fault

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you can save him the cost of the operation and call mrs Bobbit. Just dont let her throw his dick out the window. You may scare the local kids.

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What!!!! I didnt understand a single reply there.

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shewolfnm wrote:

you can save him the cost of the operation and call mrs Bobbit. Just dont let her throw his dick out the window. You may scare the local kids.

Well mrs. bobbit wouldn't be able to do the job, it is too large, anyways, if he were to have the sex change, during sex, would he feel it, like if he had sex with a man??

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Thesheebamoeba wrote:

But I love him, and don't want to let him go, I don't want him to change either!! I am so confused, it is all my fault

The solution is clear: get a strap-on

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jpinMilwaukee wrote:

Thesheebamoeba wrote:
But I love him, and don't want to let him go, I don't want him to change either!! I am so confused, it is all my fault

The solution is clear: get a strap-on

We already have some strap ons (he is kinky, they are for him, not for me)

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Thesheebamoeba wrote:

jpinMilwaukee wrote:
Thesheebamoeba wrote:
But I love him, and don't want to let him go, I don't want him to change either!! I am so confused, it is all my fault

The solution is clear: get a strap-on
We already have some strap ons (he is kinky, they are for him, not for me)

Well if he likes it in the back door, that was a big sign, why didn't you figure it out then?

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If he likes it in the back door then why is he having a sex change as having it up there implies he is gay.

If he has a sex change he will be a woman and hopefilly want it in the front door.
I hope he makes up his mind before the operation.

IT IS IN NO WAY YOUR FAULT.Sadly he was born in the wrong body, you can still love him but he will have a different body.

Does he prefer having sex with men or women?
Does he prefer taking it up the back door (with the strap on)
doing you up the back door or up the front door?
You dont have to answer the last 2.

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you guys sound like such a fun couple....

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material girl wrote:

If he likes it in the back door then why is he having a sex change as having it up there implies he is gay.

If he has a sex change he will be a woman and hopefilly want it in the front door.
I hope he makes up his mind before the operation.

IT IS IN NO WAY YOUR FAULT.Sadly he was born in the wrong body, you can still love him but he will have a different body.

Does he prefer having sex with men or women?
Does he prefer taking it up the back door (with the strap on)
doing you up the back door or up the front door?
You dont have to answer the last 2.

He said he loves women, just he loves them so much, he wants to be one.. He doesn't want to have sex with men, but he said he might experiment once or twice, because he wants to know how it feels to really be a woman.

He prefers recieving it in the back door.
He does me in the front door only, expect for once when I was really really drunk.

I just don't understand it all

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