MARRIAGE

my name is Leandre,
i'm from Benin a west African french speaking country. i came in US (Greensboro) 2 years to complete my masters in computer science at the UNCG. During my stay, i met the lady who today is my wife. things went very fast between us. we have been friends for a long while due to the fact that i was coming out of a sad relationship ( My ex-girlfriend was fighting a stomach cancer, and maybe she knew better than me was going to happen to her; so she has decided to break up and was even pushing me to meet new people).
In that situation, I've been always telling my actual wife that i wasn't ready for a relationship. more again she told me her parent will not accept a black man (she is white). when i finally accepted to try something, i discovered a lot of things going wrong with her and her family .
-dad has anxiety and divorced her mom
-she is bipolar, has anger problem, and schizophrenic
-she don't work
-always in her room
-has no friends

After listening to her story and getting to know her more, I've decided to help her ( I'm the kind of person who believes that there is a solution to any kind of problem)

My wife is a good person, she is beautiful and funny. She has to follow a medication for her condition .
it wasn't easy but things really changed in her:
- she comes out more
-got her drivers licence
-got a job, as she dropped school.

With time we got use to each other and were in love with each other.

ITS A VERY LONG STORY WITH DOWNS AND UPS , I'll jump over 7 months with sometimes not talking to each for days or weeks, because she will get mad at me other simple things like /telling her I'm sleepy after 30 minutes on the phone with her, or simply if she heard a voice telling her that i don't love her .

I WAS VERY HARD BUT I TRIED MY BEST TO NEVER RAISE MY VOICE.

Things were okay between us before we got married in may 2017.even if quitted her 3rd employer in less than a year without even telling them to find somebody else.
AFTER MARRIAGE:

-she started going in my emails, social networks, digging everywhere, always trying to find something to be mad about like:

-a girl saying hi to me: WHY?
-me trying to go to my language practice group .WHY?
-let go eat outside : NO!!!!!
- My friends are inviting use for a dinner: NO YOU GO , IM NOT GOING?
WHEN IM BACK, THE QUESTION IS DID YOU CHEAT ON ME THERE, IS THAT WHY YOU WENT ?

AND WE ARE GONE FOR A FIGHT, THE NEXT DAY, SHE WILL PICK HER STUFF GO TO HER DAD OR THIS OLD 73 YEARS OLD MAN WHO IS HARASSING HER BEFORE SHE EVEN MET ME. HE IS DOING THAT WITH SO MANY LITTLE GIRLS WITHOUT SUPPORT, OFFERT THEM MONEY OR ALCOHOL SO THEY CAN PLAY WITH HIM.

my wife did confess to me that she has been touched by him one time after she was drunk and mad.

He is the one my wife calls anytime there is something going on between us. she will also call one of her childhood friends who today in always on drugs and is sexually assisting people for money.
i remember many times she ran to her, and came back messed up for weeks and i have to go through fixing everything again. we even lost a baby into that. she was newly pregnant and did drugs with her friends.

I DONT DO ANY DRUG, I DONT SMOKE, AND SHE WAS ALMOST BACK THERE TOO;
I DROPPED SCHOOL , DONT HAVE A JOB, AND I'M NOT HAPPY. we are leaving from my incomes from being web site administrator and also my friends electronic devices that i fix.

she don't work, she sleeps, she event told me that she will get the food stamp so i don't have to worry about working. OF COURSE IT WAS A NO.

3 weeks ago, she was depressed, and her voices were telling her that i don't love her so she started acting weird , saying weird stuff that will get me mad. then we started arguing and say that i was going to ask for a divorce if she don't take her medication regularly . TRIGGER!!!!!!

SHE HITS HER HEAD WITH THE WALL 3 TIMES, STARTED YELLING THAT I'M CHEATING ON HER , BROKE MY PIANO, AND GUITAR AND COMPUTER TABLE, THREW TH TV ON THE FLOOR, WENT DOWNSTAIRS AND CALLED 911, WHEN THEY CAME, AND SAW HER HEAD BRUISE ON THE FOREHEAD, SHE LIED THAT I PUSHED HER ON THE WALL;

-I'VE ARRESTED AND I DID 2 DAYS IN JAIL AND RIGHT NOW I'M STILL SPENDING FOR LAWYER AND SO MUCH MORE.

BUT SHE STILL DON'T WANT TO WORK AND WAS VERY MAD AT ME LAST WEEK BECAUSE I WAS LATE GIVING HER HER CAR INSURANCE PAYMENT .

YESTERDAY THE 73 YEARS OLD MAN TESTED HER AGAIN, FIRST TELLING HER HE WAS HORNY AND THINKING ABOUT HER, AND THEN ASK HER TO COME WITH HIM TO VIRGINIA FOR $50 . I GUESS DRIVING WITH HIM BECAUSE HE IS OLD.

LAST NIGHT I WAS REALLY TIRED SO I WENT TO SLEEP EARLY BUT AROUND 2AM SHE LEFT THE HOUSE AND TESTED ME THAT SHE WAS LEAVING ME BECAUSE SHE WAS THERE CRYING AND ALL I DID WAS SLEEPING.

I DID NOT ANSWER, THEN SHE ADDED THAT SHE WAS COMING TO GET HER STUFF. AND SHE REALLY . SHE TOOK EVERYTHING .

I NEED TO DECIDE SOMETHING BECAUSE IM GOING CRAZY....PLEASE HELP!!!!!