@Setanta,
True. I'll reneg on the idea. Made myself laugh though, for a minute.
I'm suddenly, as if by surprise, an old woman. The good part of that is that I've known a lot of men and women, some of the men lovers, and one I married for a long bunch of years. I haven't really known men like these two are talking about. Maybe in some class or other, and, sure, I've read about jerks since I'm a pretty fair reader, but they haven't been prolific in my own life, thank lordy and pass the ammunition.
Maybe certain parts of the US are more prone to develop jerk-0-rama episodes. That's just a wild guess.
I forgot to mention that I was in early days not awful on the eyes, as max would be apt to surmise.