Should I still ask her out? How can I tell if she's interested?

You need to tell her that you are surprised that all this time she had a bf.

Let her tell you what happened.

Let her make the move. Don't let her use you as a rebound guy.

One way to find out if she's interested or not is to invite her out for coffee.

Here is her quote:
"The guy I've been dating ended things last night so it was tough in that sense but I'm trusting God. He felt called to his church and I still feel called to mine. So it's okay just disappointed."

I just don't wanna mess things up. I guess I think if all this time she was dating even though I've been texting her on Facebook maybe she is just being nice. I have asked her about her life a little. Her profile said single so I was surprised.

Single people can date. Dating doesn't necessarily mean someone is part of a serious couple. Dating is just that - dating.

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Offer a bit of sympathy/empathy re the break-up. Suggest she let you know if she'd like to get together for a coffee - suggest a couple of specific times. Do it as two separate contacts.

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Sorry to hear things ended with the guy you were dating. It can be disappointing when things don't work out as we hope.

I'm available if you'd like to go out for a coffee sometime.

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4 - 7 days later if she doesn't suggest a get-together time ....



Hey, hope you're doing well.

I'm around if you'd like to go out for a coffee sometime.

I'm available Sunday afternoon and next Thursday evening if either of those are good and you want to catch up.

Thanks! Yea I sent her a message today showing empathy for that. She just responded "thanks!!"

So I guess I just wait if she says anything more the next few days?

Did you let her know you were available to hang out/chat? if not, I'd suggest waiting a couple of days to send her a message with that information - give her an opportunity to suggest a get-together.

No I just said I was sorry and an encouragement.

You sound painted into a corner. Its time to spread one's net elsewhere.