My girlfriend since middle school told me that she wants to see a black guy on the side?

You could try some serious tanning.

Sure! Totally normal for people in long term committed relationships to have side gigs. I mean, especially since you'll never meet another female again, definitely go along with it. You might even consider getting your own black guy on the side?

I can see trouble there. His black guy on the side might resent her black guy on the side, or even worse, run off with him.

On the very off chance that a serious answer is required, you in probability are in nothing better than an erotic relationship, as it is probable that the portrayal of anything significantly more than this is mimicry. It is also possible that I`m wrong, and if you are in doubt and would wish to know, specific tests can be mounted in order to determine the truth.

So she wants to see a black guy on the side? No big deal. I wouldn't worry about it. However, if she wants to see a black guy on the front, that should be a red flag. And in that case, I have no idea what you should, or even can, do.

Oh my God, this is just way too much fun.

There are adolescents about, scoring us up, and scoring us down. No problemo, there are also hundreds of individuals coming here to read what we say, and even my website tally has shot right up. Yes it is "fun", but this fun generally stops for somebody somewhere.

Bollocks. This thread had 100+ views, that includes everyone who's posted and every time they've posted. All in all probably 20 or 30 people at the most.

181 and counting, and in a very short time too, many thousands when you tally all those relationship threads where I`m currently posting. The definition of "here" is this place, and this place is inclusive of all those threads which are here.
The absolute triple bollocks might be a shade more accurate.
Mood enhancing serotonin coupled with B vitamins would aid your cause. Good luck with that.

It must be quite a responsibility having such a huge following. Where are you planning on taking the multitude next week? I hear Cleethorpes is very nice this time of year.

It`s not a multitude, a few hundred is a "few" people, a few young people, and I have never taken them anywhere, I never sit at their table, and neither have I ever hung out with any of their number. They trust me, and they have reason to. If I can perhaps be an ambassador to them, to keep them on the healthy path, and perhaps even to shine the torch by way an alternative to growing old it is quite obviously a worthwhile exercise. I`d be quite happy with a mass following but this is currently not the case. On my website I attempt to define a whole multitude of different natures of friendship, and my friendship with these young people is nothing but appropriate to their years.
Pamela, if you want some juicy adolescent points you must remember to support her in every last of her utterances!!

Pamela Rosa is a vile racist, an apartheid era Boer, most people here have nothing to do with her.

I think you're living in a fantasy world, but you're not a vile hate merchant like Rosa.

I`m fine with that, of course you`d think I`m living in a fantasy world. My having of a natural real world following of those years, a male, sixty two years of age, is in defiance of everything we have been programmed to believe possible. As humans though anything and everything is indeed possible, and it is our very programming which stands in the way. Gaining new physical world records though ones sixties is but little less hard to believe. Those young people seem to sense that I`m different, and they latch on to these differences.

I wouldn't class you as in defiance of anything, I find you quite depressingly formulaic.

Just because chatting with you serves my cause it does n`t follow that I` have taken seriously anything which you have ever said. Elaborate such that you are actually saying something, and I`ll respond. If formulaic then, detail how you imagine that my putting on world record braking events would be the catalyst for my following young people rather than young people following me. Taking it that this is your angle? In all of your struggles here you have to date been unsuccessful in picking one single hole in me, but whilst at the same time opening wide enormous gulfs in yourself. This exercise can do you no good.

Of course not, living in a fantasy world can be quite seductive. I can see why you'd prefer that.

Ok, so the rules are now that no actual knowledge is required in determining the circumstances of each others lives, we simply make up what befits our own ego. This is precisely why you are so useless to people on this website. My website is proof absolute that I am indeed that very person which I claim to be.

Your website makes a load of unsubstantiated claims, and is a vanity project. Your popularity is such that a fundraising link in your name has yet to raise a penny. Your website is proof absolute that you're a complete fantasist.

Why not really defy expectations and see if you can get a C or better pass at GCSE English?