Well, us Grinches (those of us with a relatively smaller deep limbic system) shopped at Macy's just the same as always. This grinch also shopped at Nordstrom, Dillard's, Neiman Marcus, BeBe, Carlyn Gallerie, online product outlets and some store that sells cheap silver jewelry on Preston Rd. in Preston Center. I rarely shop at Target, so what I did there doesn't count. Oh, and I almost forgot, at Saks on 5th Ave.
Just because there were no kettles outside some stores doesn't mean I didn't donate for Christmas. I prefer to do my giving through the mail or online. I experience the sad, guilt provoking look in the eye I get from Salvation Army workers every time I enter a store at Christmas time as an invasion of my privacy and it annoys me as well.
And it's not very Christian to annoy the Grinches at Christmas. One must be loving with Grinches to soften them up. Turn the other cheek and so forth. I give because I want to, to causes I believe in, not because someone made me feel guilty or gives me an opportunity to show off how generous I am in public.
As far as I'm concerned I would prefer the Salvation Army use direct mail for their fund raising. It brings in more money and doesn't annoy customers like me at department stores. And so what, if the middle men make money raising funds as well? Everyone deserves to make a living for the work they do and besides, it boosts the economy. In the long run everyone benefits. More money for the charities, more money for the owners and employees of the direct mail businesses and therefore a better reward for the effort.
But that's just the opinion of this one self described grinch. I recognize others like to give by other methods and experience the kettles from a different perspective than I do. So when they're there, I ignore them. I didn't discriminate based on whether there was a Salvation Army person ringing a bell when I entered the store....not that I wouldn't have if it wouldn't have inconvenienced me so much.
Good for Macy's for trying to be equal and fair in their treatment of the holiday season..........speaking of open minded tolerance and freedom of speech. Some of us want to demand it of our profs in university.........but don't let the department stores get too uppity when it comes to "diversity." Too bad there are so many vindictive Christians out there.
Vindictive Christian an oxymoron? One would think. However it takes all kinds to make a movement, religious or otherwise. I'm betting there are as many Christian grinches as there are non-Christian.
Ideology has to do with thinking (the prefrontal cortex). The "heart" is located in the limbic system of the human brain. The amount of love and charity one feels is based on the size and activity level (from one moment to the next) of the deep limbic system, and the pre-frontal cortex has little to do with it, other than offer a method for how to express it.
It's all in the motivation and drive. Ideology is only one method for implementation. A single ideology can be used as an expression of many emotions including hate and retribution.
Here's a Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas wish for all of my friends on a2k. And I'll offer a toast, <Champagne in hand> here's to diversity in both thought and affect.
Quote:Always look on the bright side of life.
[whistling]
Always look on the light side of life.
[whistling]
If life seems jolly rotten,
There's something you've forgotten,
And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.
When you're feeling in the dumps,
Don't be silly chumps.
Just purse your lips and whistle. That's the thing.
And...
Always look on the bright side of life.
[whistling]
Always look on the right side of life,
[whistling]
For life is quite absurd
And death's the final word.
You must always face the curtain with a bow.
Forget about your sin.
Give the audience a grin.
Enjoy it. It's your last chance, anyhow.
So,...
Always look on the bright side of death,
[whistling]
Just before you draw your terminal breath.
[whistling]
Life's a piece of sh!t,
When you look at it.
Life's a laugh and death's a joke. It's true.
You'll see it's all a show.
Keep 'em laughing as you go.
Just remember that the last laugh is on you.
And...
Always look on the bright side of life.
[whistling]
Always look on the right side of life.
[whistling]
Always look on the bright side of life!
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Always look on the bright side of life!
[whistling]
Always look on the bright side of life!
[whistling]
Always look on the bright side of life!
[whistling]
Always look on the bright side of life!
[whistling]
Always look on the bright side of life!
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Always look on the bright side of life!
[whistling]
Always look on the bright side of life!
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