@izzythepush,
And the OP certainly has no idea other people have come to A2K and ... ooh ... asked a less than wonderful question, or were just hoping for validation or a pep talk.
I know some questions can get repetitive and tiresome, or it can seem as if the obvious solution continues to evade such users. But there is a really obvious solution for the replier.
No one has to read any of those topics if they do not want to. But for people who are in abusive situations, if you cannot help them, I say to all - kindly collapse the topic and move on with your lives. If you feel like making fun of a guy who cannot get up the courage to ask a woman out, then feel free to do so and show everyone how nasty, petty, and unfeeling you can be, and how you have forgotten what it was like to be young. Please, show the world how your empathy stores have run out, and how your kindness meter has broken.
But for abused people? Like I said, no one's making you read or comment on any of them. Please do the biggest favor for them, if you cannot help them or at least give them some support, and collapse their topics.
Thank you.