Scratch away. Revelette has the the integrity and honesty not to pursue the issue.
She has integrity and honesty, and she honestly told us the reason she would say no more on the subject is that she didn't want to turn this discussion in the religious direction you were pushing it.
She and I agree on very little, but I appreciate when someone backs off rather than doubles down.
She backed off because she didn't want to make the entire conversation about religion.
I appreciate more when they admit they crossed the line, but we can't have all we want.
Like you said, Rev has integrity and honesty. She wasn't going to tell you she crossed the line because she didn't.
Unlike Rev, however, I have no doubt you'll be pushing this religious angle further.