Is it wrong to want to go after my FWB's friend?

Geez . . .

First stop playing games with your FWB. While you say you both don't "feel anything" ' for each other, your actions don't say that. So stop thinking with your sex organ and stop using other people.

THEN - you can let that other girl know that you are REALLY free enough to peruse another relationship. That shows respect for her.

I'm sorry but I can't help but find it funny that you say I'm using her when she's very clearly using me. And I'm not currently pursuing the friend, we're just talking and I'm considering it.

Thanks for your response though.

If you and your FWB have indeed been as clear as you suggest (explicitly, in words, not just through actions) to each other that you're only enjoying each other's sexual company and have no interest in any future romantic involvement, I don't think it would be wrong in any moral/ethical sense.

Complicated though, maybe.

If you really want to pursue odds of a relationship with this friend of hers, it would likely make things simpler to first cut off the FWB deal. Can think of two reasons:

- Thinking of your FWB: Even if no romantic feelings are involved, emotions can be unpredictable in any relationship, let alone in a situation that involves both the guy she's sleeping with and her friend. All the more so if she has a "super territorial possessive" side.

- Thinking of the other girl, if you think you might be serious about her, it probably doesn't help your chances if she knows you're currently sleeping with her friend; whereas it wouldn't really start things off on a good foot if she doesn't know and you'd keep the info from her.

If you feel nothing for her and you are considering hooking up with her friend then yes you are using her, for sex.

Which is what Punkey meant.

I've already stopped the "benefits" part of our FWB arrangement because of my interest in this girl. She knows that I was FWBs with her friend but she still seems to enjoy talking to me and whatnot, I'd like to think it's because she knows there was nothing between us but sex.

My FWB specifically told me "just letting you know, I'll never leave my boyfriend for you, I love him." So I'd like to think there's no interest lol.

We specifically met to use each other for sex though. (Tinder)

Those kind of relationships don't ever work in the long run. You are finding that out.

in a week you went from tindr to FWB to not FWB? cool

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The thing that seems weird to me is that someone doing truly sex-only FWB was in a situation to introduce their **** buddy to someone else. That doesn't usually happen. Soméone's got whack boundaries. I suspect it might be your former **** buddy.

in other words, you will not be seeing that person again. If there's no benefits, there's no FWB.

Haha it's because her friend came over while I was there and it was just the polite thing to do.