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Sun 8 Oct, 2017 08:50 pm
I used to work with this guy in a factory & we flirted like crazy.
We never really talked about much that was personal.
I don't remember giving him my number but he has it.
I didn't know he knew my last name but he's got me on FB msngr.
I always liked him but thought nothing would come from the flirting, we were both with other people.
Throughout the years he's messaged me to meet up with him. Called me & I was always "busy"
I didn't want to disrupt his happy home.
(Or what I thought was)
It's been almost 10 years & I finally met up with him. He kissed me, it was electifying. We had sex, it was the best ever. I told him we could be fwb ahead of time & that's all I wanted, he agreed & said he was going to mention that. The feeling I left with was euphoria.
I've never felt this with anyone before.
I think about him all the time now.
Question is, he's been after me for 10 years.
Does someone pursue for that long just for sex or was there something more he seen that I didn't notice?
I want to keep seeing him as a fwb but not sure if I should mention that my feelings are changing?
He keeps mentioning that he's waited 10 years for me.......
@MinkaBlinka,
It's not unusual that the fire can be reignited.
But remember: you are not the same people you were 10 years ago.
Hopefully, both of you are free to enjoy this relationship again. (As in, neither of you is married)
@PUNKEY,
He's divorced & has a girlfriend, says things are rocky.
I'm married now, been for 5 years but marriage hasn't even been consummated. Married more for practical & stability reasons.
i think anyone that hangs to you that long is wanting more than fwb relationship. i break off with any AP that i sense is going beyond a fwb or tells me he doesn't love his wife only.
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