@edgarblythe,
Yeah, good move by you.
I'll have to think back. I don't have an immediate memory of a real con.
I've anger at my high school nuns, not other nuns, just those, but clever as they were, much as they messed me up, I get it from their point of view. That was a particularly strict order.
An early boyfriend, good man, was mugged in Europe, where I don't remember.
I'm in there on the now famous to some of us rape thread, no link, since I never want to see it again. In short, it was around noon, no alcohol; he had a cafe with good food and a salon for his art, and I liked his art. He got me in his studio. I should have reported it, but even the woman doctor I picked from the phone book didn't believe me, and gave me the worst gyno physical in my now long life.
My very good boss, an internist I worked for after school/uni, had the last name McKenna. I had no crush on him. Gads, I think he had seven kids, but they could afford it. Then his wife died in childbirth, and the whole hospital clanged in stress.
I mention this, since the woman doc I picked from the telephone book had that last name. I guess I had no clue then about some of the hatefulness of us irish, and no clue to not to count on names.
Life long lesson on choosing names.