I discovered my fiances secret porn life----eeeek

Men enjoy porn.

Probably...all men enjoy porn.

Get over it.

And from now on...stay out of his computer files...because that is a much lower thing to do than enjoying porn.

Frank Apisa wrote:

Men enjoy porn.

Probably...all men enjoy porn.

Get over it.

And from now on...stay out of his computer files...because that is a much lower thing to do than enjoying porn.

I disagree with Frank. You can't help how you feel. Being told to "get over it" doesn't resolve the issue. But, the issue MUST be resolved before you get married. If he says he needs it everyday, then he will continue to view porn everyday whether you approve or not. If you disapprove, he will just hide it better in the future.

Is this something you can live with in your marriage? If not, don't get married.

If he finds some decent porn, let me know. It's all geared towards and made for men and only features straight on f****** and cum shots. Women, well, I can only speak for myself but, I prefer the softer stuff. WITH ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE.

When yall find some of that, you will let us know, right?

Any suggestions folks?

And please, dont tell Bear, Gus, Kicky or Slappy about this thread. It will turn to smut faster than you can say...smut.

If he finds some decent porn, let me know. It's all geared towards and made for men and only features straight on f****** and cum shots. Women, well, I can only speak for myself but, I prefer the softer stuff. WITH ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE.

When yall find some of that, you will let us know, right?

Any suggestions folks?

There's one thing you neglected to mention to her, Debra. She ought also be prepared to find out that her husband...when they get to that point...will watch porn and jerk off.

That's probably something else you will disagree with me on...but I'd stake huge amounts of money on it.

Good movie pp, I've seen it three times. Tell me...what's it about?

eoe wrote:

If he finds some decent porn, let me know. It's all geared towards and made for men and only features straight on f****** and cum shots. Women, well, I can only speak for myself but, I prefer the softer stuff. WITH ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE.

When yall find some of that, you will let us know, right?

Any suggestions folks?

And please, dont tell Bear, Gus, Kicky or Slappy about this thread. It will turn to smut faster than you can say...smut.

I have already posted on this thread thank you and was not smutty at all....you on the other hand are soliciting for porn that deviates from regular intercourse....shame on you......

Frank Apisa wrote:

There's one thing you neglected to mention to her, Debra. She ought also be prepared to find out that her husband...when they get to that point...will watch porn and jerk off.

That's probably something else you will disagree with me on...but I'd stake huge amounts of money on it.

I'm not sure what you mean. Will I agree with you or disagree with you that her man is "jerking off" when he watches porn? He probably is masturbating at least some of the time or maybe even most of the time that he watches porn . . . which raises other issues and possible problems.

Will he reach a point when porn completely consumes him and he can't satisfy his sexual desires in any other way? (Other women have complained because their porn-addicted men would rather masturbate to porn than have sex with them. The fact that this man says he NEEDS it everyday is a red flag.)

I don't think this is something that a woman can simply be advised to "get over." It is a significant problem in many relationships.

And how about the man (in another thread) who is complaining that his wife wants to dance (strip)? Should he "get over" that? Just wondering what things we ought to "get over" and what should be considered important . . . .