@ossobucotemp,
I've not read that book, osso. Actually, I've read far too little on Mexico and I've yet to go there. I was talking over the last weekend with a friend here who has traveled extensively aand bsolutely loves the place and the people. She says one has to be prudent, but given that, things are delightful. She's been many times, on her own or with others.
When I was doing my teaching practicum in Vancouver, the teacher I was working with warned me about touching students. This was a behavior that I really had to curtail because the Mennonite family culture I'd grown up in was very loving towards children and touch was completely natural. To refrain was unnatural and cold. This teacher returned from a brief holiday to Mexico where he'd never been before and he said to me, "Watching the Mexicans interact with their children gave me an understanding of how you are with children."