@justaguy2,
Had time to consider better my answer:
Here's the problem: somewhere along the way he removed many people’s ability to be appalled. We have become numbed.
Just because we have become immune to his behavior doesn’t mean it should be treated as if it is one side of a two-sided coin. Just because he lies so cavalierly doesn’t mean he should be allowed to get away with it. Just because his oh-so-unsubtle race-baiting is part and parcel of his presidency doesn’t mean we should just let All Lives Matter chants pass by the wayside. Just because we have become bored by our takes and have run out of new and clever angles for analyzing our malign president doesn’t mean we should say nothing at all.
What you describe is an all things being equal situation where the debate is Democratic Party (Federal policy) vs GOP (states rights). This is not where we are at. I am a Republican and I honestly do know if Trump even understands Republican principals.
Take healthcare. Its not a Democrat vs Republican issue. Its a liberal vs conservative issue. If there is a national will for health care reform, how the reform is carried out will be different between Democrats and Republicans.
There is a will for reform: the argument is how. Frankly, President Obama's ACA is Republican sort of plan: the "industry" pretty much stays the same and everyone uses insurance (giving us something the insurance companies have wanted for years: 100% enrollment which they claimed by itself would lower premiums paid by the government for the poor, and those paid by the rest of us). And it makes sense: more people using services generally lowers prices.
Personally even as a Republican, I prefer my more Democratic, Federal health care. The VA. One of the largest, most successful "socialistic" healthcare systems in the world.
A third-way movement has its place. Unfortunately with Trump in office, this election has no place for the luxury of "third-way" politics.
All the president’s grotesqueries matter.