@McGentrix,
I wouldn't count on much gracious acceptance of the results by Democrats. They are already flooding social media with "Remind everyone that Hillary won the popular vote!"
But I would also not count on too much humble reserve from Republican legislators. They may have the blank check the Dems had when Obama was elected. We'll see if Trump gives them free reign the way Obama did with their friends across the aisle. I don't think it's as sure a thing as it was with Obama.
Just as the world didn't end when Obama was elected and re-elected, it won't end because Trump has won.
I do think though that he will at least try harder than any recent president to make good on his campaign promises. He may not be able to achieve them, but it won't be the typical "I know I promised this stuff during the campaign, but now that I've won...." bullshit we've all become used to. He's not a career politician and so all of the typical dodges and lies pulled by career politicians are not second nature to him. In fact, I'm pretty sure he's quite proud he's not a career politician and will be actively trying not to act like one. This doesn't mean that the way he acts will be wonderful, but at least it won't be depressingly predictable.
He's a crazy SOB but he will be an interesting one.