@farmerman,
That's funny. That's where I first remember hearing that phrase too.
The other day I was walking down the sidewalk near the college campus.
Half a block up, I noticied 2 young people sitting on the curb, she apparantly much distressed.
As I got up to them, I could hear her saying through this shaky cry-y voice.......b-b-but I don't UNDERSTAND! (sniff sniff) w-w-w-hy can you j-j-just....blah blah blah.
I'll give the guy some credit, he was trying. They both saw me coming, and she was so into it she didn't care. She was probably deep inside happy to have a (female yet) audience. He was really trying to look concerned, but I caught him looking off for a second like "jesus christ, I could be studying/sleeping/playing on my phone/anything else right now"
I so wanted to say "Save youself son. It's not too late. Run"