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Asking out a Co-Worker

 
 
Braytc
 
Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2016 01:15 am
Please try to read everything so you get a realistic picture. Appreciate it!

Trying to keep it short. Met a girl at my work that is quitting soon. She seems to show signs she likes me (always going out of her way to say bye to me when usually nobody does that kind of thing, always laughing at everything i say and smiling directly at me. again could just be courteous and friendly things but you never know) and I know I really like her.

1. I don't know a whole lot about her but going to ask her out one night when she's heading out of work. I can't talk to her or ask her these things during work because the place is small and other workers/boss will overhear us. I was going to slip her a note with my number on it but not sure or message her on social media but that's kinda wishy washy i think,
So I decided a good choice might be to go back to work a night she's getting off late and ask her when she's leaving the building one night? Would that be weird because i thought it would be cool?

2. she's 29 years old and i'm 23. Any problems with that?

3. Not completely sure about her distance. She's quitting the job and not sure where she's going in a month or so. Overhearing her, and what her facebook says, she used to live 2 hours away, and this summer (idk if it's temporary) lives very close to me so not 100% sure. If she's 2 hours away can you make something work if worse comes to worst?

Thanks guys.
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FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2016 02:23 am
@Braytc,
1. Go with one... Be assertive and age is but a number, if she feels that you are too young so be it, but you don't know if she is after a long term relationship or just a relationship of some sort, you don't know her past and you won't know unless you ask her out.

Life is like that.

As for distance they work but require a lot of effort, bare that in mind as it's not about being with your mates all the time and texting or phoning her when you get home, if you enter a relationship she is just as important if not more than your social life.
Braytc
 
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Reply Sun 14 Aug, 2016 03:40 am
@FOUND SOUL,
Thanks!
Yeah it's just really tricky to "ask her out" in the middle of our work place where there's constantly people around. I could easily do a passive note with my number on it, or throw her a message on social media. But i really wanted to ask her in person so I feel going back when she's heading out the door would be cool. And then the age thing is w/e like you said, just was wondering if that's "normal" at all. And then the distance thing we'll have to see, i don't even know exact details yet :/
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