@blatham,
I got one of our bunch of times a year phone calls from my ex today. We still have fun talking, especially politics, where we long term tend to agree, and he's more into it than I am (is that possible, yes), knows more details, sort of like our Blatham. We essentially broke up back in '93, my then idea of total disaster, but time put a blanket on my dismay, and, if anything, we get along better than back then, and no, I don't mind he loves his later family.
Why do I bring this up? He's sort of a bellweather re what is going on with the election, and he's not worried. We'll see. My fear button is blinking red. I don't want my fear to come true.