@maxdancona,
No, you are because you insist on a childish, Romantic definition of the term: "A hero is someone I'm proud of!"
If the 9/11 Hijackers truly believed their sacrifice was for the greater good of some much larger group, their actions were heroic.
You may not consider them heroic, but I guarantee there are millions throughout the world with a different world view than you who think they were.
I don't consider them heroic either because I question their motivation, not because they didn't like me or Americans, but I'm prepared to accept that some might consider them heroes.
You want to make the term personal so that whatever you or your friends think is heroic, makes it so. This is the childish version that leads to "The Lone Ranger is my hero!"
The concept is defined and without relativism.
The hero accomplishes extraordinary things to advance a goal larger than his or her interests with the full understanding of the likelihood he or she will suffer as a result.
There is nothing in this concept that requires the adulation and cheers of small children and vapid partisans.
I daresay many of humanities true heroes have been lost to history.
Quote:I think you are missing the concept of heroics. Sacrificing everything for a cause isn't it.
But being cheered is?