@lisa1471,
Not sure what you are after - your post reads something like this:
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he's a narcissist, but should actually care for you
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he only wants bj's from you, but you want him
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he likes being single, but you want him
- he's a church goer, but happy to sleep around
- he asks a date to church, flirts heavily with her while looking at you...
Shouldn't you already have all the information you need?