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I am so cofused (and sad) now. Plz help.

 
 
Count of Banterbury
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 12:11 am
@Real Music,
Understand I am in small town now. As we say here, Dog died in here. If I were in capitol, I would simply visit some conference/meeting/mashup and find date directly on place Smile
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 01:49 am
@Count of Banterbury,
How old do you reckon this lot are?

http://www.traveldestinationsearch.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/drag-queen-bingo-royal-oak-mi.jpg
Real Music
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 04:51 am
@izzythepush,
Based on the group picture, I guess their ages to range from their mid 20s to their mid 30s.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 06:22 am
@Real Music,
So fine for a 27 year old to socialise with then.
Leadfoot
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 07:28 am
@Count of Banterbury,
Quote:
I think the answer is pretty obvious: she is some kind of troublesome drama queen and I did not love her, I loved the idea of her that I artificially created in my mind.

Good for you Count. Learning that lesson is at least half the battle.
Count of Banterbury
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 01:55 pm
@izzythepush,
Hahaha, but first I noticed environment around and thought they are doing the same what 99% of blonde tight dress deep cleavage much skin in their 20 do - party hard, screw up even harder. Than I noticed Bingo Very Happy

One question: if you are going to play table games, why do you die your hair, wear heavy makeup (or is it lighting?) and generally look like Friday-night causal sex seeker? Very Happy If those "sexy chicks" had FB account and I studied how each of them looks like, I am perfectly sure I still could not differ each other regardless Very Happy


See, that's why I fell for readhead. Very Happy
Count of Banterbury
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 01:56 pm
@Leadfoot,
yeah thanks. I am long over it.
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Count of Banterbury
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 01:58 pm
@izzythepush,
"So fine for a 27 year old to socialise with then."

Read my reaction Very Happy I would not poke a stick to them if it was 10 meters long Very Happy Hey, I don't know them but this is just not my environment and not my type, ok? Very Happy
izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 02:01 pm
@Count of Banterbury,
People like to look nice when they go out, especially women. If you know anything about women you'll know they dress for other women, not men. We'll go for a pretty girl wearing a potato sack. They want to show their friends how good they can look.

Not everything is about attracting a partner.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 02:03 pm
@Count of Banterbury,
Have you thought that your type might not find you their type?

Stop being so bloody fussy and blowing off a load of pretty girls based on a load of assumptions you've made about them. I can see why you're single.
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Count of Banterbury
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 02:17 pm
@izzythepush,
hey, take it easy!

a) if wanted to dress to impress my friends, I am sure I am not gonna copy all of them Very Happy
b) If I am attracting same sex, I do not expect opposite sex to approach me Very Happy
c) I am perfectly sure these women would not poke me with 10 m long stick neither Very Happy


It was hard pic search, but this is a place where I prefer to make acquaintances

http://www.impacthub.ro/wp-content/uploads/sites/62/2016/03/8-hours-overtime-621x394.jpg

Some gathering of local business people, businessgirls, engineers, programmers... there is always several nice chicks going around, friendly environment and above all we have common talk intellectually a bit more enlightening that "what do you think is going to be next? 5 or 8? 8!!! Yay!"


Knowing women, I guess I just made an enemy for life here, right? Very Happy
izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 03:25 pm
@Count of Banterbury,
Chicks? Are you from the 1960s? You can't know women very well if you think I'm one.
Count of Banterbury
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 03:36 pm
@izzythepush,
I know exactly who is typical core user of this forum.

But you women are in some traits all alike. For instance, you get angry over nothing, regardless the age Very Happy. Ever since puberty strikes you it's all the same till death Very Happy . See, this is the reason why I can't make acquaintances with women with... less technical thinking. They get upset over each of my prank Very Happy

Hey, I am Count of Banterbury, right? Very Happy
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 03:38 pm
@Count of Banterbury,
izzythepush is not a woman
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chai2
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 03:41 pm
Have you ever thought about moving to a larger place, or are you just going to shoot down that idea too?
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 03:44 pm
@Count of Banterbury,
You've made some interesting comments about a group of pretty young women at a bridal shower type event. Not sure where you're seeing deep cleavage and heavy makeup - but it's not in that photo.

If you think they look like Friday-night casual sex seekers, you've been in a pretty limited social circle. Big cities in Europe and North America or South America or Australia or Asia probably aren't for you.
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 03:45 pm
@chai2,
I think he'd plotz in about five minutes in a big city.
Count of Banterbury
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 04:05 pm
@chai2,
I have some job here, Once it's done, I will move on. If this job turns our right, maybe I'll move to one of the best cities (with one of the best girls) in the world.

So, cross your fingers for me if you don't hate me already (what you probably do Smile ).
Count of Banterbury
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 04:17 pm
@ehBeth,
it's just not my type OK? Maybe they all have unique and beautiful personality, but what I see on picture is a lot of makeup and skin. The environment is not much appealing too - looks like some noisy evening pub. Maybe at other place at other circumstances I would approach some of them, but not there, not like this. I want to know they are smart and have nice personalities. From that pic I can't estimate anything and I am not going to take chances when I can be at better place with more suitably outfitted people.


You know, that reminds me one... very curious phenomenon I used to observe in my younger years: In central Prague there is a huge messy disco mostly for drunken teens looking for making social media selfies or casual hookups. But I did meet quite a lot females (and males) there 30+ years old and I asked them what are they doing there. Most of inhabitants there is half of their age. Their response: "I am looking for a life partner".

Many men tend to be confused when it comes to subtle dating approach but sometimes, women can be confused too.
Count of Banterbury
 
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Reply Sun 20 Mar, 2016 04:24 pm
@ehBeth,
honestly, do you find this guys appealing?

https://blogdorf.files.wordpress.com/2010/11/douchebags.jpg

This is pretty much male version of what you posted. A lot of fake look and artificial poses.
 

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