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Why would she come up with a excuse for not meeting when she asked me?

 
 
marisy
 
Reply Mon 15 Feb, 2016 05:13 am
There's this friend of mine, but we never really met in person. One day she asked me if I wanted to go to a concert with her if she had enough money. Of course I said yes. Two weeks before the concert I asked her if the concert was still on. She wasn't certain, because she was short on money. A week before the concert I see on facebook that she's going to another concert a couple of days before our meet-up (and more expensive). So I ask her: "I guess we're not going anymore?" I was right... Now I found out she's also going to another country to see a band and she's attending yet another concert in her neighbourhood (all in a span of three weeks). Clearly money wasn't the issue... Why would she ask me in the first place? I want to confront her, but I don't want it to turn into an argument :/
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Mon 15 Feb, 2016 06:52 am
@marisy,
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Why would she ask me in the first place?
Maybe it was on an impulse and she later had second thoughts about it. After all, the two of you had never met and maybe she just decided she had no real interest in meeting up. So she tried to back out without hurting your feelings.

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I want to confront her
What would be the point? Let it go. Sure, your feelings may be a bit bruised, but you will live. If you have been putting your dating life on hold because you had hopes for her, then rethink that and get back to seeing and talking to other women. She just may not be interested in pursuing you.
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Ragman
 
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Reply Mon 15 Feb, 2016 06:56 am
@marisy,
It's frustrating when you get mixed signals. However, you only just recently met her for the first time. she doesn't really owe you anything. You don't have a committed relationship She can change her mind.

You seem to be hung up on this for quite awhile. You've asked about this same lady a few times and the answers have been the same:


http://able2know.org/topic/307984-1#post-6103148
http://able2know.org/topic/307521-1#post-6098054
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