@marisy,
Quote: Why would she ask me in the first place?
Maybe it was on an impulse and she later had second thoughts about it. After all, the two of you had never met and maybe she just decided she had no real interest in meeting up. So she tried to back out without hurting your feelings.
Quote: I want to confront her
What would be the point? Let it go. Sure, your feelings may be a bit bruised, but you will live. If you have been putting your dating life on hold because you had hopes for her, then rethink that and get back to seeing and talking to other women. She just may not be interested in pursuing you.