Quote:But which is worse, a few moments embarrassment which you can brush off with a laugh, or a life time of wondering and regret?
a lifetime of wondering and regret? I don't think so. considering that you haven't made ANY progress with this guy, I really can't see how you would be thinking of him more than a month after he's gone...
there are many fish in the pond, and this one doesn't sound like he is particularly good for you! I'm sure you have met guys who you just feel totally natural with from the start, someone you just feel good talking to, someone who leaves you walking away with a smile. This guy isn't that guy! Yeah, maybe you COULD end up with a relationship with it...but it doesn't sound like you'd be missing anything magical.
Anyway, my intent is not to try and talk you out of him...that's not my job, I just say what I think. In terms of your predicament, which I am having trouble responding to over IM:
1 - I don't think having his picture taken really means anything. Most guys are flattered when asked if their picture can be taken by a girl, and will happily let their picture be taken regardless of whether or not they like the girl. The only guys I know of who would not are very egotistical people who think they are superior.
2 - I cannot stress enough how much email is NOT a good way to meet a person. It is all about "ifs" and "buts" and waiting and doubting. Not a good thing, not fun and spontaneous like dating should be. You really must talk to him in person or over the phone.
3 - I don't think any of the particular things he has done constitute as a rejection as stand alone incidents. But your persistence, and his lack of any kind of a positive response over this period make a clear statement: he is not interested, for some reason or another.