@bobsal u1553115,
It is one thing to moderate the way in which members communicate, but it is something entirely different to moderate what opinions they are communicating.
Take misogyny for example. What does "No misogyny mean?"
Why should anyone care what the motivation may be for a member who heaps crude invective on another? If male Member A is calling female Member B all sorts of foul names, is deliberately misquoting her, and encouraging other members to harass her, is it somehow worse behavior if it is a result of Member A's hatred for women in general, instead of simply specific hatred for Member B?
Or are you suggesting that no comments should be made or opinions expressed that can be considered (by a lone Grand Poobah or a star chamber consisting of other members) to be misogynistic? If so, presumably this would mean that someone would be banned from starting a thread entitled "Women are not as smart as men," or to express that belief in an existing thread. To what purpose? So that fragile psyches don't accidently stumble across an expression of misogyny?
The primary problem with these kinds of "controls" is subjectivity and establishing a "jury" from a group of largely like-minded thinkers will not necessarily lead to fairness and objectivity...more likely the opposite.
I suppose that if the intent is to develop "communities" that operate like echo chambers and exclude anything that might upset the equilibrium of the members, these sorts of controls are actually necessary and it shouldn't be too difficult to get the sheep to agree on an acceptable level of Group Think. It's precisely what is happening on campuses across the country and I think the Thought Police driving it have probably developed all the necessary rules and mechanisms to accomplish it.
But again we return to "What Robert wants." If he is most concerned about usage (and one of his comments to me suggests that this may be the case), then whether or not anyone is attracted to and remains members of any of these stultifying communities is far more important that whether or not the discussion going on within them is of any intellectual value what-so-ever.
I admit that there is a certain attractiveness to the argument:
If you find echo chamber communities boring, obnoxious or even a blight on the intellectual landscape of America, then don't join them. The members don't want to be provoked by opposing opinions. They have all made up their minds that they know exactly what is right and what is wrong and while they will tell you that they understand the counter-arguments, but they reject them, it doesn't matter. They are happy believing what they believe and they are happy "spending time" with people who believe what they believe. The have no interest or intention of diverting one inch from their current positions and any attempt to get them to do so only makes them upset and angry. They don't want to be upset and angry and if they are made to feel that way they will leave the new improved A2K and whatever scheme (and I don't use this to suggest a plan that is underhanded) Robert has to obtain financial gain from the site through usage focused advertisers will crumble.
Now, if the site was my "baby" I might feel like I had betrayed its originating principles by following this route, but that would probably be a lot of lofty hog wash easily countered by that portion of my mind in charge of rationalizing my actions. First of all, I would remind myself that I am not independently wealthy and as much as I enjoy creating and managing forums like this, I have bills to pay, mouths to feed and kids to send to college (at least I did). I probably would convince myself that making money doing something I really like is better than making money doing something I don't like and the nature of the "real world" is such that regardless of how I make my money, some degree of compromising my principles will be required. Better I engage in such unfortunate, but unavoidable compromise in a profession that I like than one than offers no reward other than financial.
Secondly this approach doesn't preclude the creation of communities that operate much more in alignment with my original, more lofty aspirations. Besides, I would remind myself, I've tried my original idea and obviously it hasn't worked. The sort of people whom I hoped my site would attract have not come (maybe they only exist in pretentious novels and films) and to the extent they have come, the number of assholes that joined them and took advantage of the freedom inherent in my original concept, has been much greater and they have largely been driven away. I'm not going to be forced to teach Math in an inner-city school because the "great debaters" were unable to successfully police the assholes. Perhaps I made it too tough for them to do so the first time around, so in addition to facilitating the creation of sterile, gated communities, I am going to provide new tools to the intellectuals so they can better control the assholes.
I imagine it's an inner conversation similar to one a successful commercial artist who set out to create masterpieces might have, and it's a perfectly reasonable and realistic conversation. I've had it myself. Ultimately you can still do good things, produce good work and enjoy your life while making money. Struggling artists are not the only authentic people in the world. So while it's nothing of which to be ashamed, I would expect it to inform one's view of the world and to be less judgmental of those who don't live up to one's expectations and their own.
But I diverged big time...
Returning to your planned community Bobsal. Which of the following, if any, might you consider expressions or examples of misogyny and worthy of some sort of warning or punishment by the Poobah or jury?
• One poster addresses another as “honey” or “sweet-cakes.”
• A poster comments that he believes women with children should stay at home and care for their children rather than pursuing a career
• A poster comments that he believes a significant number of the rape allegations being made on US campuses are either greatly distorted or outright fabrications being used as weapons to either settle scores or garner attention
• A poster comments that he believes there is a significant difference in the way the two genders think and that as a result one gender may be better suited for a specific career or profession than the other
• A poster comments that most of the women who are being sexually harassed at work have through certain of their own actions and behaviors invited the unwanted attention and perhaps at some level the attention is not unwanted.