izzythepush
 
  0  
Thu 10 Dec, 2015 04:33 pm
@Olivier5,
Do you ever wake up and think 'Today I'm not going to whine and moan about bugger all,' or does that thought never occur to you?

http://photos-ak.sparkpeople.com/nw/2/1/l219520886.jpg
Olivier5
 
  5  
Thu 10 Dec, 2015 05:01 pm
@izzythepush,
Naah i'm cool. Cheerful even. Enthused would not be too strong. I have some reason to hope. Several even. Counting my blessings, buying gifts, looking forward to the merry jolly season and all that...

How's life treating you?
Lash
 
  3  
Thu 10 Dec, 2015 05:28 pm
@Olivier5,
<3 So glad you're here.
ossobuco
 
  4  
Thu 10 Dec, 2015 06:13 pm
@Lash,
Me too.

I'm familiar with a rondelay of vibes from people I like, at each other.

I'll just say that Olivier has been underesteemed for quite a while.
ossobuco
 
  2  
Thu 10 Dec, 2015 06:32 pm
@Lash,
Lash, on the TOS, it's way at the bottom of the page, fairly hard to see..
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oralloy
 
  -2  
Thu 10 Dec, 2015 07:06 pm
@Finn dAbuzz,
Finn dAbuzz wrote:
I have always hated the idea of "reporting" posts and in fact, I bet that a lot of the reports you get are not due to someone being sincerely offended but because they want to take a shot at somebody. In any case, going forward I intend to use the function since it is the only way available to determine if there is selective enforcement at work, and I encourage any other members who have expressed a similar concern (and there are some and they know who they are) to do so as well.

The problem is, most of the thugs stopped attacking me after the moderators gave us all a week's suspension for fighting. And the lone remaining thug moved on after I put her on ignore and demonstrated my willingness to file abuse reports against her.

It doesn't feel right directing Robert's attention to attacks that the mods already acted against them for, and which they then subsequently stopped**, even though their behavior back then was horrendous and far worse than anything Hawkeye ever did.

One of the thugs is still committing asshole behavior against someone other than me, though I don't know if the behavior rises to the level of an indefinite ban. The person being targeted did report it to the moderators a month or so ago, with no action seeming to be taken. Perhaps I could direct the victim to this thread and they would consider re-reporting the abuse that is still being aimed at them.

If one of the thugs chooses to unleash a brand new horrendous attack against me, I'll certainly not hesitate to report it (assuming that I hear about it). But me and the thugs seem to have developed an understanding where I keep them on ignore and they go bother someone else. That's not likely to lead to anything I can report.


** I just wish that Hawkeye was given the same opportunity to modify his behavior after a mild suspension that was given to the really vile thugs.
Olivier5
 
  1  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 01:16 am
@Lash,
Glad you galls are around too. Much love.... :-))
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Finn dAbuzz
 
  0  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 04:23 am
@Olivier5,
Olivier5 wrote:


Whaaat??? So far you were doing good (you're right on Americans being fair game in some quarters. I always thought that the sort of antiamericanism de rigueur in the French left was a form of racism) but y You lost me there. I hope i didn't come across as someone who wants to eliminate mockery... I'm just asking for fair treatment of all slur on A2K, using the same criteria than for everybody else. Égalité. A leveled playing field. No double standard. You've been asking for the same thing, unless I misunderstood you.


You're correct. I have been asking for the same thing: consistent and similar treatment of all slurs.

I did not take your comments to mean you wished to eliminate mockery.

Sometimes my posts can be misunderstood because I tend to transition from addressing "you" the poster of the comment to which I am directly replying to "you" the generic everyman, without a clearly recognized break in perspective.

My point was that in a world where it seems as if there is a concerted effort to eliminate mockery, by building PC shields around every group of people that has been fair game for quite some time, there remains (and likely always will) a few groups who are denied the shields. In America, urbane sophisticates who would rather give up their Starbucks than mock gays, the homeless, Muslims, doctors who sell baby parts etc don't think twice about mocking, and often cruelly, white, working class Southerners. For the reasons I suggested in my prior post, the mocking of inbred, toothless, Rednecks who live in double-wides and shop at Walmarts is perfectly acceptable in certain segments of society where mocking "protected" identity groups is a capital offense. The French, on a global basis, seem to also be fair game among nationalities when Africans, Arabs, indigenous peoples, etc are shielded.

I've suggested that arrogance attracts mockery which helps explain why, in the global arena, Americans and the French are often mocked. Clearly, the majority of Americans and French are not arrogant, and just as clearly there are other nationalities which could easily be described as being so, but arrogance has become a very familiar aspect of American and French caricatures just as stoicism, and hot tempers are familiar aspects of the stereotypical Scandinavian and Latino.

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It's all very simple. In short, if you can't say it about them "Negroes" or "Youpees", well then you can't say it about them Yanks or Frogs. If you think you can't say "Blacks are dirty", what makes you think you can say "the French are dirty"? (not YOU, i mean anyone)


You are preaching to the choir.

Quote:
Yeah well, that may apply to me and to quite a few French and Americans... but i've travelled the world and the seven seas, and can tell you that arrogance (and racism) is in no short supply in this world. We all look down to each other, we human beings, everywhere. There's the arrogance of the Parisian intelkectual of course, and that of the American billionaire of course, but also that of the Chinese official, the Thai who see sea gypsies and montainers as inferiors and foreigners, the Afghan who idealize the pack of tribes he calls Afghanistan, the Turk, the Russian, the German and yes, the Brit, they all have more than their fair share of arrogance. Even totally inconsciously, we often see our own team as better than it is. More central to the whole game than it is. We are all equal ALSO in that no nation is without pride and prejudices.


Again, I agree.

Quote:
But double standards are annoying.


And yet again we are in agreement.

Now I expect that someone will join our discussion and point out that a lot of the groups who have been removed from the buffet table, and afforded shield of political correctness were (and in some instances, still are) the targets of more than simple mockery: discrimination, persecution and violence being among the arrows in humanity's nasty quiver. This of course is true and when mockery takes the form of slurs and/or calumny, a line has been crossed, but in terms of the US experience, white, working class Southerners are hardly members of America's elite classes. They also are not, generally speaking, targets of persecution and violence, but illegal or immoral discrimination is usually based on the discriminating party's ill regard for a group, and where American Rednecks are concerned, there is plenty of ill regard.

As well the mockery of American Southerners very often takes the form of slurs and calumny.

That many "rednecks" themselves often engage in the mockery of identity groups is immaterial. So do the members of the identity groups.

I've no doubt that this same hypocrisy exists in other lands wherever progressives reside, but I am not familiar enough with these societies to identify the local groups who are fair game.The chances are pretty good though that they are white and male though, because as noted previously, White Males are a near universal target which not only will never be afforded PC shields, but are considered , by large numbers of bashers to be very much deserving of mockery.

See Panzade's earlier post wherein he wrote:

Quote:
This is the realm of the middle-aged white men that make up the majority of the posters on A2k.


Now Panzade is most often a reasonable fellow, but while his cited comment is hardly dripping with sarcasm, one can easily detect the ill regard he has for this very large group of shieldless people.

Which leads me back to one of my main points. Prohibit all mockery that crosses the line (as previously defined) and "you" will do much to eliminate undesirable behavior on A2K. Defining unrestrained mockery in terms of identity groups is not necessary.
Finn dAbuzz
 
  -1  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 04:24 am
@ossobuco,
ossobuco wrote:

I'll just say that Olivier has been underesteemed for quite a while.


By who?
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Finn dAbuzz
 
  1  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 05:13 am
@oralloy,
oralloy wrote:


The problem is, most of the thugs stopped attacking me after the moderators gave us all a week's suspension for fighting. And the lone remaining thug moved on after I put her on ignore and demonstrated my willingness to file abuse reports against her.

It doesn't feel right directing Robert's attention to attacks that the mods already acted against them for, and which they then subsequently stopped**, even though their behavior back then was horrendous and far worse than anything Hawkeye ever did.

I do not suggest anyone comb through old posts looking for examples of bad behavior to report. I suspect that this may have happened with hawkeye, but I also suspect that the moderators will not, now, readily accept and consider such reports. Instead I am urging members to report the bad behavior that is recent and/or which will follow with time.

Robert has repeatedly stated that he is not on a hunt for the bad behavior of anyone, and I see no reason to disbelieve him. He has also repeatedly invited us to report such behavior. It seems to me that he has suggested that by doing so we will be able to determine the degree of subjectivity and/or bias that may or not exist within the process and on the part of moderators. If he actually was not making such a suggestion, I still think its an excellent idea, and urge it's deployment. It would really be best if more than one person took this course of action, because any report I make could possibly be identified as a test rather than a concern.


One of the thugs is still committing asshole behavior against someone other than me, though I don't know if the behavior rises to the level of an indefinite ban. The person being targeted did report it to the moderators a month or so ago, with no action seeming to be taken. Perhaps I could direct the victim to this thread and they would consider re-reporting the abuse that is still being aimed at them.

The TOS does not state that A2K (the site) agrees to inform those who report abuse of the result of the moderators' examination, but this is not particularly unusual, and so the "person targeted" will likely not know what action A2K took in response the the abuse report. If the bad behavior is continuing, it's unlikely that a warning may have been issued to the perpetrators, or even a short suspension that would not be distinguishable from a voluntary brief hiatus. In this case, I would suggest that the "person targeted" again file an abuse report and continue to do so until the behavior stops or he or she is contacted by A2K.


If one of the thugs chooses to unleash a brand new horrendous attack against me, I'll certainly not hesitate to report it (assuming that I hear about it). But me and the thugs seem to have developed an understanding where I keep them on ignore and they go bother someone else. That's not likely to lead to anything I can report.

I hasten to add that I am not calling for anything like an "abuse report assault" on the moderators. If there is no genuine bad behavior to report, then, clearly, an abuse report should not be made. For this "test" to have any possible legitimacy, it needs to be conducted in terms of the natural flow of day to day posts.

I suspect that many abuse reports currently made are more a means to "harm" a member than to express legitimate concern, and I can understand the reluctance of some members to become involved in what might seem like a battle of sorts. A lack of reports to date, however, may have more to do with an aversion to being seen as a "snitch" or resignation that the process doesn't work, then a paucity of bad behavior. Nevertheless, for us to get an idea of whether or not hawkeye (and anyone else suspended or "punished" in some way), may have been unfairly treated, we need to reduce or eliminate our tolerance for bad behavior.


** I just wish that Hawkeye was given the same opportunity to modify his behavior after a mild suspension that was given to the really vile thugs.
layman
 
  0  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 05:29 am
@Finn dAbuzz,
Finn, although I haven't commented on them, I want to join Ollie in congratulating you on your articulate and quite rational posts in this thread. I suspect that few have even read them, because they tend to be rather long.

But some have, I'm sure. I know I have.
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Olivier5
 
  1  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 05:55 am
@Finn dAbuzz,
Quote:

I've suggested that arrogance attracts mockery which helps explain why, in the global arena, Americans and the French are often mocked

There's "global" and then there is global... On the REAL global arena, the French and the Americans are often cheered and loved. Here in Italy, while of course a few jokes are made about the French being so proud of themselves, a majority of people are actually francophiles. Same in many other countries I've been to. Just say "I'm French" and you see people start to smile at you and speak of Zidane or Manu Chao and what have you... Maybe in Mexico you find a bit of resentment because of the 5 de Mayo. Otherwise, even in Algeria, which would have very good reasons to hate us, people are generally friendly and fine with us.

It's only in anglo-saxon cultures that the anti-French clichés are so widespread. This has to do with the age-old rivalry between France and England. The Brits have basically not digested it yet. They're still pissed, and they have spread their prejudices around in the anglophone world.

Anti-Americanism is a more complicated matter because America has qfor quite some time had a much greater influence on world affairs than France and thus has created very deep enemities. But still, once you get out of the most politicized circles within any nation, and once the point has been made that Washington is fucked up, most people like you guys. They dig Mickey Mouse, Cameron Diaz and Coca Cola, they listen to Madona, they watch the Hollywood blockbusters, etc...
izzythepush
 
  2  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 06:46 am
@Olivier5,
Your cheeriness is like Hawkeye's Zen tranquillity, much spoken of, never actually observed.

Olivier5
 
  2  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 07:02 am
@izzythepush,
Sorry you feel that way. But there's hope for you too. Remember what Cantona once said about seaguls and sardines? Well, if you follow me long enough, maybe you'll get a few sardines...
izzythepush
 
  1  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 07:40 am
@Olivier5,
Do you have anything that's not quite so smelly?
Olivier5
 
  1  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 08:08 am
@izzythepush,
Don't be so picky. You're following a Frenchman after all...
izzythepush
 
  1  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 08:27 am
@Olivier5,
It's hard to avoid you, but I've never followed you.
bobsal u1553115
 
  4  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 08:27 am
@oralloy,
This from the guy noted for going around and calling people child molesters in very lurid and disgusting detail.
layman
 
  -1  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 08:38 am
@bobsal u1553115,
You're suggesting some kinda hypocrisy? On A2K!? Impossible, I telllya!
Lash
 
  1  
Fri 11 Dec, 2015 08:42 am
@izzythepush,
Try harder to avoid him. And me too.
 

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