Wed 21 Oct, 2015 08:41 pm
Im a 31 year old female i love watching porn. So does my 31 year old fiance, he says he doesnt want me watching porn anymore because he feels like its a form of cheating. He stopped watching as well. So i thought. The other day my phone was dead he told me to go on his phone and look up the number for a pizza place. I log on and right on his screen is a porn video on anal. I wasnt mad but kind of confused. I said babe this is not fair youre allowed to watch porn but im not? You made this rule not me. I dont care if he watches porn because well i love porn and watching it.
How do i respond correctly to this without him thinking im angry about him watching it behind my back? How is this not a double standard? I only watch girl on girl porn. I just dont find it fair. What do i say to him?
According to your post he was lying to you when he said he stop watching porn. Yes, that is a double standard and yes it is not fair to you. Suggest that you tell him that you know he is still watching porn and that you don't have a problem with him doing that. Suggest telling him since he is still watching porn, that he really shouldn't have any problem with you doing the same. Since you both like to watch porn, why don't you watch it together? That may turn out to be fun and exciting.
What a double standard.
So he does not want you to watch porn as he considers it a form of cheating, but he's allowed to do it? Where's the logic here?