Ev123
 
Reply Mon 17 Aug, 2015 09:36 pm
So theres this guy i met at a party the other week and we got on so well and he started texting a few days after the party and we have been talking quite a bit, i said the other day did he want to hang out and he was like 'i don't know' because apparently he has a lot on at the moment so he will let me know when he's free, and i felt really confused about that because if it was the other way around i would have definitely made time for him but anyways i text back and said we don't have too and he was like yeah i want to but i just have heaps on at the moment. And we haven't talked since!

So is he being legit or is he avoiding hanging out with me?? Please help??
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 17 Aug, 2015 09:39 pm
@Ev123,
Ev123 wrote:
he will let me know when he's free, and i felt really confused


sometimes you just have to accept that people are telling you the truth

he'll let you know if/when he has time

people are busy

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i would have definitely made time for him


it would appear he has more commitments he needs to keep than you do

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if you don't want to wait around for him to be in touch, keep going to parties and meeting new people

it's ok
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maxdancona
 
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Reply Mon 17 Aug, 2015 09:51 pm
@Ev123,
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So is he being legit or is he avoiding hanging out with me?? Please help??


I would believe him, but since you just met him I don't think it matters. He doesn't owe you anything at this point.

If you are interested in hanging out, I would send him a text after a week. Maybe say something like "Just want to say Hi. I hope you are making progress on all you have to do". This is a good way for you to leave the door open. If he doesn't respond, then you should probably just let it go... but if he does respond, then you have a way forward.
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Ragman
 
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Reply Mon 17 Aug, 2015 10:26 pm
@Ev123,
sounds familiar:
http://able2know.org/topic/275282-1#post-5940357
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