Foxfyre wrote:But Nimh, Marlene did exactly what I would suggest anybody should do if they honestly believe the United States is not the best place to be. If I get to the point I need to trash my country, I'll leave it as I said.
OK, yeah, you're right on Marlene. But what about what I said earlier? I dont think Holland is necessarily the best country on earth, but I live here because, well, "simple. This is where my family lives. My friends. My job's here. I'm familiar with the place. The skies are beautiful."
So here I am. Imagine this government goes more rightwing still, and I get really, really upset / alarmed by the direction my country is heading in. I'm not going to keep mum about it, either - for one, because I dont think thats right. Do I still have the right to want to keep on living in this country for all the above reasons, even when I
will say out loud that I think my government is just absolutely wrong? Or should I sacrifice living near my friends and family if I cant be loyal to my government?
Nation or individual, which one goes first ...
Foxfyre wrote:My 'bit' is on the high desert of New Mexico.....the land is harsh, there is little green, little surface water, yet it is beautiful in its own way. My son rotates beween the rangeland and wheatfields of the Texas Panhandle and the Gulf Coast; my daughter is in the Monterey Bay area of California. We have lived in Texas, in the Southwest, in the Midwest, and in the East and we have travelled to all but I think 5 states now. Alaska is incredible. Hawaii is incredible. New England is incredible. The West Coast is incredible. There is no place that doesn't have something to commend it.
And there is a sense of being in 'my country' in all of it. And I like the people everywhere we've been.
Perhaps this is part of the difference. Just like you've been in most all of the states of the US, I've been in most all of the countries of Europe. And I found Italy, Spain, the Czech Republic and Sweden "incredible", too - at least as incredible as my own country. Each country has its own treasures. Holland does too, but they dont particularly outshine all the others'.
I also greatly liked the people I met and sometimes made friends with in Greece, Hungary, Russia and yes, even Germany ;-). Sometimes I felt alienated by the differences - especially in Russia, or, say, the Slovak countryside. But I also (especially lately) feel alienated when I go to the business district of Amsterdam, or to the suburbs here - just strongly feeling,
these people are not like me. Whereas in Berlin, I
can find places I feel at home in, just like I can in Amsterdam or Rotterdam.
There
is some stuff thats only here, in Holland, and that makes me feel at home here. But there is other stuff that seems shared by Amsterdam, Berlin, Prague and Budapest, thats just not there in Nieuwegein (a suburb here). In any of these cities I can find a place that has people just like me - or more like me than those in Nieuwegein, in any case. So it all relativates it somewhat.
I dont feel lonely or bitter when I realise that Holland is not necessarily the "best country on earth", btw ... I feel secure in knowing what I really like about this place and what I dont like about it - and that there's other countries that I really like some stuff about too - and really dislike some stuff about as well. Holland is as good a place to live in as most countries, - its not supreme, and I might still move some time - but its fine. Is that a feeling thats to be pitied?