Mathos wrote:
what does this mean?
Dutchy wrote:
Quote:Perhaps they think a change is as good as a holiday.
That's exactly it Dutchy- not unhappy with what I have- just the kind of person who would like to experience all the various lifestyles life has to offer. That's why I move around so much- there are so many different kinds of lives to live- I have trouble choosing just one.
Dutchy wrote:
Quote:Do you think women should be spoiled or should it be the other way round?
I think ideally, it should be a little of both. I think my parents may have set an unrealistic example in that my mother treated my father like he was the king of the castle and my father treated my mother like she was the queen. No disrespect allowed toward either of them- their birthdays were always the big events of the year, etc...
They treated us kids great- but they never spoiled us- though they kind of spoiled each other. I thought it was nice though.
But I don't think it's like that anymore. I think most parents treat their kids like they're the be all and end all. I've very rarely felt spoiled by my immediate family (although they're certainly nice enough to me) but I guess I always saw my mother as being really, really treasured and it's just kind of different these days.
Do you spoil your spouse/significant other? Or if you have children, do you feel that most of the attention is focused on them?