@glitterbag,
We have been insulting our leaders since the nation was created. Presidents from Jackson to Lincoln, both Johnsons, Nixon and many others have been villified with abandon. Ironically some of the political organizations, newspapers and even individuals who so viciously attacked Richard Nixon and mocked Ronald Reagan are today piously decrying contemporatry hostility toward the Clintons. Intolerance is a part of the human condition, and you appear to share in it as well. We live in an age in which long term values , good and bad, are being overturned and rejected. while our intolerence is is now merely directed at other things. We delude ourselves with the notion that we are overcoming past imperfections in a progressive march towards harmony and perfection. Recorded history amply discredits such fantasies.
There's a lot of deceit, falsehoods, and bad ideas out there, and not all of it is in the teaparty as you appear to suggest. I also agree there's a lot of peevishness and ingratitude as well : not to mention the crybabies and wussification you decry. However I see that across the political spectrum, not as you appear to imply on just one side of the political divide. I run a professional services company and I see a marked change in the current crop of graduates we recruit, the much discussed milennials. Some (not all) I find a bit childish naive, dependent, and even wussy .
There is no doubt that we are today slightly more polarized than we have been for the past few decades. However there were repeated cycles of extreme political polarization throughout the 20th century. I think we'll survive it all.
Congratulations on your career with the intelligence agencies. I did a career in the Navy, flying fighters off carriers and later commanded one and still later a carrier group. No squadron commander, ships captain, or Flag officer when confronted with a major setback, mishap or defeat would last a heartbeat defending him/her self by saying no one told him there was a shortage of something needed; lying about the cause; or asking rhetorically "what difference does it make at this point?" I am appalled at the many recent rejections of accountability coming from the present Administration. That is a dangerous trend and those who do it are, in my view, unsuitable for positions of authority and responsibillity.