Hi,
A girl started working at my place and very shortly afterwards, I got a huge crush on her.
We were getting along fine chatting and working, then I said something dumb "Do you believe in love in first sight or do I need to walk past you again". She was shy, dropped her chin, I asked her out that day she said I don;t know what I am doing. (earlier she said she is not doing anything)
This was only a month after we met. And I only work part time.
I found from some workmates that she really does think I am cool. But I think this was a big suprrise to her so soon.
A week later (today) I tried my luck again asking her to go out to a museum to see a special presentation - then she said she has seen it already.
Now the problem is that we really do not know each other very well and I do not work very often at her place when she is working. I feel that she rejected my offers cause she does not know me that well but she will never get to know me cause we hardly ever work together.
I am in my mid 20's and I am after a serious love relationship not sex and she is french I am not if that helps.
I am not vert good at all at conversations and after I said what i said I don't think I am myself anymore, I am not relaxed anymore,
Last time i tried to get together with someone I was way to pushy and I fear that I do not do this again, yet I do want to show that I want more than just a friendship.
Any advise before I stuff up again.
And I want this girl not a theory of big numbers! She is single as well
Thanks