Confused about what happened.....

Thank you for reading this and any advice would be helpful. About 6 weeks ago I met up with a guy that I was chatting with on a website. We met at a bar and talked for a couple hours. I parked kind of far so he drove me to my car, we did have a pretty passionate kiss before I got out of the car. I got home and texted him thanks for meeting me out. He texted back that he could have talked to me all night and that he has a great time. Over the next 6 weeks we hung out regularly (2 or 3 times a week). We went to dinner, hung out at his place and hung out my place. We really got along great, never had dead silence or awkward moments. I was myself right away and so was he. We share the same interests, have the same goals in life and we even have the same occupation. I am 37, he is 34. I have not had many relationships as I never seem to find a guy I hit it off with. We continued with kissing throughout our meetings. One night he did go further but I quickly stopped him, I said we wouldn't want to regret it. I felt as though if we hooked up so quick, it may turn into more of a sexual relationship. He understood. We did not have any other physical contact for another two dates. When he was at my house, we did cuddle and played around in bed. Honestly, it wasn't great for me......later you will find out it probably wasn't great for him either. Possibly me stopping him the first time put a damper on the sexual part. We continued hanging out and loving each others company. Well, the other day he sent me a text that he was wondering where this was going because he loved hanging out with me but for some reason didn't feel sexual chemistry but he said is weird because he finds me handsome. He has told me prior that he always ends up getting hurt by guys. I would not discuss further through a text so I called him. I did explain that I understand what he meant about the non sexual chemistry. I did say we have alot of chemistry in other ways but yes the sexual was not as strong as maybe it should be. The thing is, I like this guy alot and hoped the sexual chemistry would come at some point. Well in our discussion, he said he is all for still taking things slow. I said you know if you feel we should be just friends that I am ok with that. He said that would be great and that would take the pressure off. I am thinking that I pressured him yet I did not mean to. We have still been talking as friends and will be hanging out for dinner and drinks now and then. We both are runners and have plans to do some runs and 5k's together. I don't know what I take of this. Did I freak him out or did he freak himself out? Did we both put up a barrier and not let each other develop sexual feelings for fear of getting hurt? We obviously are just going to be friends but I am wondering if I can turn this new friendship back into something more down the road. Any advice or input would be great. Thanks!