I'm sure you will, all the young men I'm related to have turned out fine. But use Hawkeye as a cautionary note, not every man or woman grows up, some just grow older.
One little piece of advice, I know the forum grants you a bit of anonymity. But the people you have called fools could be your grandparents. I've been here since 2002, plus I (online) have known since around 1997 some of the same folks who formally posted on now defunct forums. I respect and admire the people who have tried to help you, you shouldn't be so quick to snap at them. Think of it this way, if you answered your grandmother or grandfather the same way, how would they react? I know how my grandparents and parents would have answered. I'm not trying to censor you, I'm just saying you are responding like a kid, but you will definitely grow out of it. Frankly I remember how much smarter I was at 16 than those stupid adults who were so woefully out of touch. Trust me on this, by the time you reach 25 you will be stunned that 16 year olds think of you as old and out of touch. When the shock wears off, you'll remember you were talking to kids who haven't found their legs yet. Good luck to you, I think you're going to be fine. For one time only, I'm going to sign off as your Aunt Glitterbag.
All I have to do now is wait for Hawkeye to slip out of his sadist leather so he can rebuke me sharply, yaaaaawnnn