Should i just forget about her?

You are a fool if you think i put people down... if anything i respect what everyone says...

Not "everyone"....

ok....

also, you say i fight with "anyone" you are wrong about that. I only fight with people that cause some kind of issue...

No, the fact that I read your "ok" and left this thread and you've written to me again to "argue" another point, suggests that you don't like being told.

Therefore you like to argue. As sure as heck, I am anyone.

You appear to be a sorehead, both males and females find this behaviour to be tiresome. Life is short enough as it is, why would anyone spend a minute of their life tiptoeing around you? I looked at your earlier posts, you seem to be in constant crybaby mode. If you don't gain some sort of perspective about your attitude, you will remain locked in a state of frustration thinking life is unfair and you deserve better. You probably deserve better, but you won't achieve it until you control your temper. You can't even control yourself on this forum when you've been given sound advice. If you want to be treated better, try behaving much much better.

You don't seem to understand me at all if this is what you really think. Most of the time i don't express any emotion and i don't even talk about it with anyone. When you see the kind of things i see everyday, it builds up and it gets frustrating. Its not like i constantly do this kind of stuff all the time man :/ Most of the time i respect everyone either that or i don't fool around with them. I'm not a sorehead and i am most certainly not a Bad person. Sure at times i may be a bit of a jerk, but most of the time i'm not and you can ask anyone i know.

You think i like to argue? you are a fool if you truly believe that, sometimes you gotta say what needs to be said

After reading your comments, It's become more clear. You need to forget this girl and then hope like hell you can behave like a civilized human the next time you are attracted to someone. Your mommy might think yourself worth the effort to turn you around , but that's mom, we love our sons.

However, this girl you're obsessed with probably also has a mom and dad who thinks she could do much better than you. If she were my daughter or you were my son, I would discourage both of you to make a clean break and look for that person that respects you enough to speak the truth, not just their insecurities.

She sounds like somebody who is not ready to settle. Leave her alone, she deserves better.

you coulda/shoulda said " Leave her alone, she is not available, but no, you hafta be a gratuitous bitch.

You are not suitable for the adult table.

funny because i am only 16...

A couple of things i want to say

1. you seem to be the only one here who thinks am obsessed
2. For those of you who don't know, we have already made up and we are friends again....
3. How am i not behaving like a civilized individual? If anything i admitted to my mistake and apologized like i was supposed to do.. but apparently to you i'm still an asshole right ? :/

I don't have a fish in this pond. I got your original anxiety, what ever thread that was in.
I got all the irritation at you.
I certainly get all the comments about your sharp tongue, quick to spue, at the same time speaking as a poor thing.

I get aggravation at you for slamming people who were trying to help.
I get aggravation at all your repeated threads. Stop doing that.
Let us know how it goes, and if you do, do it on this thread.

Those repeated threads occurred several months ago... If you choose to stay aggravated over a past event, that is your choice.

Mister Never Wrong, I don't actually dislike you. You do have quite a cloud cover going on, lecturing people who tried to help you, and displaying a lot of obsessing potential.

I get it that you are bright. That is not enough for avoiding stupidity.

I'm glad you mentioned your age, that explains a lot. I've had the pleasure of living thru the teen years of my sons and my nephews. I've not raised girls but I'm pretty sure they go thru similar phases that are probably just as aggravating.

We've had a few teen girls who are just as obstinate and disrespectful as you are, you will grow out of it around 18 or 19 I hope. But in the meantime, please study and absorb all the sage advice you get from our resident SMBD expert, the much beloved Hawkeye. I'm not sure how old he is, I'm guessing late 50's to late 60's, but I recoil from actually researching anything about him. I worked Intelligence for 32 years so I know logically that reading other peoples thoughts can't make you ill, but whenever I read Hawk I sanitize my computer screen for fear of contracting some sort of a carnal flu.

It's peculiar he thinks I'm old money, but then again he believes anyone who doesn't live in a mud hut is old money. I think he means well, he's just socially maladjusted. If you want to grow up to be Hawkeye, follow his advice. If you want to grow up to be a decent man, look elsewhere.

Finally, I'm chalking up your defiant and dismissive and insulting remarks as typical of a 16 year old boy. If you're anything like my kids and their friends and my nephews, in about 3 years or so, you will be a much better person.

THree successful kids, one earning over $100K a year at 26 and having a blast
successful business
All the friends I could want
A hot slut wife that I can do anything I want too because she loves me so much
Lots of sex with her and others
a nice house in the right neighborhood
Never a boring moment
Learn something new everyday
and so on
and so on



You could do worse.

Wow, it's like we are twins, except my husband is a stud, not a slut. I don't discuss my sex life for fear of making the apes feel inadequate. Plus I'm not interested in other peoples sex life, just my own. One piece of advice however, don't brag about income, it might not sound impressive to the people you're trying to impress.

I get it Hawkeye, you want me to know you don't like me. I just don't give a **** what you think or say about me. I'm happy for you that you think your wife is slut, if it's ok with her, WTF. At least I'm not involved. Enjoy

Hopefully your newfound sense of tolerance sticks.

I doubt it.