@argome321,
Quote:The question is why are these women having so many babies out of wedlock... If they are so educated? You think that someone is putting a gun to their heads? Maybe it's a sub culture with relaxed morals?
First the sub section of black women who are highly educated may or may not be having babies out of wedlocked at the same rate as other black women.
Have not look into the matter yet.
But I do think that the so called current black culture is promoting the idea of men as players and not as family men and black women as a whole are allowing black men to do so.
In the 1950's the out of wedlocked brith rate for the black community was around 20 percents so this player ideal is something that had grown in my lifetime.
A short note I once have a white couple next door that had been living together for many years.
When the man told his lady that he wished to started a family with her she told him ok but you are going to need to married me first.
That is the responsible thing to do on her part and she knew that she was the gatekeeper in that regard.
Why black women are allowing black men to get away with fathering children on them and then walking away is a interesting question but whatever the answer might be it does not change the fact that black men are a proven very bad bet when it come to them being good fathers.