she earns a living as well or she could be gambling.
I threatened to beat the crap out of him because he kept taking her to casinos (behind my back) and she was gambling her money away.
In my opinion. She still is, that's why she was short of money the other day.
They have something in common.
She has a disability. Some, just jump over them and get on with life, others wallow and you've stated that she barely lifts a finger around the house yet she could if she put her mind to it. Perhaps the disability has left her feeling depressed.
He would be depressed, he "used" to love her, as I stated, probably still does and he's single 10 years later, yet he gets to spend time with her, at the Casino, gambling or helping her around the house.
She needs counselling or she will gamble further than just money.