I never understand why any person (male or female) thinks if you like to wear panties, do some crossdressing, or what ever, you are gay or queer. I only do it with a woman, dream of doing it with women, and would not even let a guy come close, unless playing, and then I have become "bravo" with some queer guys trying their luck. Even a trans-sexual not sure if I could play with.
So panties and other things are just some cloth, cut to some pattern, and sewen together. I wear panties because I like them, the way they feel, etc., and never even crosses my mind to attract a guy in them? Guess it proves, some people that do not have a mind, nor knowledge of the subjects, just say crap!