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Sun 15 Feb, 2015 09:55 am
A couple of weeks ago, I meet this girl who I like and recently I asked her to meet in a bar. We did meet (there was her and my friends) and we started talking and after some time we kissed each other. She told me I hope this is not a one off. We ended up drunk and she told me that she has trust issues and she is very insecure.
I had another two dates with her and during the last one she told me that she describes herself as a relationship failure as she does not know what is love.
I asked her for another date but she told me that she does not feel comfortable with dating as she takes time to adapt to a new situation (that is dating with me) but she wants to get to know me better. I decided to keep talking to her but not a daily basis (before we used to talk to each other on a daily basis) so I didn't talk to her for 3 days. Then she talked to me to check if everything was ok.
The thing is that we do not live near each other so it would be a little bit difficult for me to hang out to the places where she goes out.
Should I be a little bit more patient with this girl? What do you think guys?
If you like her, and want to date her, then be patient. If not, then don't.
@hatiek,
What's the purpose of the repeat post? You posted the exact same question on January 4th and you received answers and replied here:
http://able2know.org/topic/267754-1#post-5888479
@Ragman,
No man. I think you are confusing this thread with another one.
@hatiek,
No, he's not (although he posted an incorrect URL).
Here:
http://able2know.org/topic/263756-1 That is YOUR topic.
Quit asking the same question over and over again. You are not going to get different answers.
@jespah,
I did name the thread exactly the same. So what? Different story, different context....
I didn't know I will confuse you by naming the threads exactly the same. I'm sorry bro...
@hatiek,
hatiek wrote:I asked her for another date but she told me that she does not feel comfortable with dating as she takes time to adapt to a new situation (that is dating with me) but she wants to get to know me better.
do you live close enough that you could go to a museum or art gallery or movie or something similar once or twice a month? sounds like she might be interested in getting know you as a friend - which is a good thing.
romantic stuff too soon usually doesn't work out in the long run.
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