@hatiek,
You call the poor girl a geek... Instead of an intelligent young woman who knows what she wants out of life, will become someone because she is passionate about learning and getting it right.
Your focus is on a young woman who will give you all her time, because that is what "you" want.
Sad really because she liked you, if only you wished her success and let her study and was there when she had the time, after all she compromised and gave you some of her time, so she's not selfish.
My advise would be, she won't be the one for you. You sound as if you have no passions in life, no desire to be anyone, happy to study and just live day by day. She's got dreams, passions, goals. She needed understanding and support. Because it's her life and she "chose" to want to go somewhere in life.