@Jusmaried190,
These are the pitfalls when you wait until marriage to have sex.
Since she has no experience whatsoever and you're her first, it's up to you to teach her in a gentle way how you would like to be handled. In how you approach this subject, will be the defining factor for the rest of your sexual life with your wife.
Use a banana or hot dog to show her in a playful, humorous manner ....