It’s a bachelorette party that she went to for a friend. Kind of not the point though. Just don’t know what to do as if I ask her then in accusing her
Lemme tell you what to do...or rather, what NOT to do.
NEVER EVER go into your wife's purse whether looking for a mask OR ANYTHING ELSE.
When you do that, what you are doing is searching...no matter what else you think you are doing.
Now you have found something that cannot be definitively explained...and you are in a quandary.
By now, you know you are going to ask her...there is damn near no way to avoid it. So just ask her about the condoms. And the new problem may not be her answer...it will be "Why were you going through my purse?"