@Thomas,
Forget authority, then, Thomas. If you want to reject Harvard physics professors, so be it. Let's reason this out together. Is there anything we can agree on?
Do you agree that, in SR, it is the moving clock which runs slow? I have quoted Einstein on this topic.
As an aside, I use "Einstein" somewhat loosely to refer to SR as it is interpreted and employed by physics today. I am talking about the theory, not Al's specific words.
That said, Einstein has indeed written, somewhat extensively, on the topic. I was referring to his example in the OP. It was the example where he explained the "relativity of simultaneity." I could find that, and cite it, or refer you to it, but my point is not about his particular words he said to begin with. I am not asking a historical question about the precise words he might have used. I am talking about his theory,
and its implications. He did not always completely spell out all the implications of his theory, unfortunately.
Again, forget what he said. Let's reason this out.