Want to make a family full

@Bubble-Bl,

I think, I'm ready. Despite it is hard, I have a dream and nothing can stop me!

@Richard42,

Right mood! I'd wish to be so confident. How is your partner? Did you tell him about your decision to go through surrogacy in a clinic? What was his reaction?

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@AdamL,

Well, he didn't know, that there are clinics, which provide surrogacy service for same gender couples. But when I told him that it's possible, he was sooo inspired! So, now we are searching a clinic together

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@Richard42,

So, as I understood, he likes this idea and he is ready to move further with you. It is really great! My congratulations! Don't forget to keep us posted about your process of searching a clinic

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@AdamL,

Yes, he is ready to go with me. He loves me, we are a family, can be any other way? We don't know exactly where to go, but we will probably go abroad

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@Richard42,

Abroad? But why? Aren't there any reproductive clinics in your own country?

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@AdamL,

of course, there are such clinics. A lot of them. But they are too expensive. I just don't have so much money

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@Richard42,

If you are not stable financially, you shouldn't think about children at all. Every method of becoming a parent is not so cheap as we want it to be. And then, when you finally become a parent, a child will require money. A lot of money

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@AdamL,

I cannot say, that I'm not stable financially. I work, my partner works too. And we can give our child everything he\she will need. But still, we don't have SO much money to go through surrogacy in our country

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Glad for both of you and wish you a good luck in searching of a right place. is price the only one point according to which you are searching for clinic?

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@Richard42,

Are there any variants already of the clinics? What are the criteria for you to choose the clinic?

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@John1673,

There are so many clinics, it is hard to choose. I think, that the most important criterias are legal aspects and success rates

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@Bubble-Bl,

Thank you for wishing good luck. Price is not the only factor, of course, but it is still important, it must be acceptable. I don't expect doing all the procedures for free, but I just cannot allow myself to do them in my country

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@Richard42,

I agree, that legal asperts are very imortant. It is a very serious deal and no 100% guarantees can be given. So, one must be sure at least in something

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who takes decision in your couple? Whose word is the last one? your or yours partner?

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@Bubble-Bl,

In my family I am the one who makes decisions. Of course, the decision is common and both opinions are counted. But hesitating is a part of my partner's character, and for him it is always hard to decide something

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@Bubble-Bl,

And in my case my partner's word is the last one. It is not because of my weakness or some hesitating. I'm just sure in him and I can always rely on him.

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I don't know how it is right to act. Think everything depends on person. If it is ok to be in such position then ok. Did you divide already your duties concerning the child?

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@Bubble-Bl,

not exactly. But now we are thinking, who will leave his work to stay with a child, and who will earn money for the family. But still, that fact, that one of us will work, doesn't mean that the other one will care about a child by himself. We both will do our best.

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@Bubble-Bl,

It is not so easy to divide duties. I cannot even imagine how it will be. We'll sit on a kitchen and one of us will say "Let's do it this way: I feed him, and you walk with him. I get up if he cries at night and you change pampers"...... Sounds stupid. I think, we will do everything together, with no division.

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