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Mon 24 Nov, 2014 08:39 am
Hallo to all of you guys!!!
How are you?
My name is John and I’m from Belgium!
Me and my partner are together for already 5 years! We are ready to go further!
We would like to complete our family…we lack a child…but want to become the best daddies in the world..How do you think how can we complete our family and make it full???
@John1673,
Allow me to explain to you what adoption and surrogacy are. Either will work.
@jespah,
thank you very much!
of course explain me all the variant you can!!
@John1673,
Definition of
adoption
Definition of
surrogacy
Google is your friend. Use a lawyer for either of these methods.
@John1673,
Hello, John. I understand everything what you feel, because I'm in the same boat. Agree with the words said previously - you need a lawyer first of all. He'll help you to find out where to go through all the neccessary procedures legally. Good luck
@jespah,
thank you for your advice!
this procedures are so complecated especially when you are a gay couple...
@Richard42,
thank you for wishing me good luck!
i know that it is important to find a good lawyer to know all the legally aspects..
@John1673,
What variant do you like more - adoption or surrogacy?
@Richard42,
as for me surrogacy is better variant than adoption. There are more advantages as for me. yes, there are a lot of obstacles but still there are a lot of gay couples with managed to cope with all difficulties and have a baby now.
@Bubble-Bl,
Agree with you. And, by the way, in such case the child will be genetically yours
@John1673,
Hiya & higher everyone.
Another avenue you could explore is sponsoring children in need by contributing to charitable organisations.
@Miss L Toad,
It is a pity but if to talk about adoption it is always preferable to give chances for traditional couples to adopt. as for gay couples it is not easy to adopt.
@Bubble-Bl,
yes. It is so hard to fight against stereotypes
@Richard42,
don't know both variants are too complicated especially when we are gays...
but think that we would like to begin with surrogacy...thus we can have our genetically related baby..
@John1673,
have you already discussed it with your partner?
@Richard42,
yes!we are discussing possible variants for nearly 6 months already.
want to do everything properly and legally!
@John1673,
Did you ask atorney about some help or how are you going to implement your plan into life. i think that without help of specialists it is impossible to do.
@John1673,
And what does he think about surrogacy?
@Bubble-Bl,
agrre with you. If you are new on this difficult way, you cannot do anything without a professional help
As for me the great problem for majority of people and not only for gay couples but for traditional couples as well is high price of the surrogacy. Not all couples can afford it even if they have a great desire to become parents.
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